It feels like we've bypassed the time where people were hassled for spending their days online. I think it's pretty much a given that most people are now online the majority of their waking hours, whether it be mobile phone cellular data or at home on wifi using your phone, tablet or computer.
Which one of the above options describes you best, cos lets be honest, the majority of folk on this website will spend the majority of their time online whether it be gaming or otherwise.
Sadly I'm on a device most of the day whether it be watching TV, playing a game, procrastinating on the iPad/iPhone (which, since my iPad decided to kill itself the other day has reduced out of force rather than because I wanted to reduce screen time), now on the old PC. Screens are everywhere these days, it feels harder to avoid them than just give in and use them. One thing I do despise (and never do myself other than checking the time) is using devices round the dinner table, remember a couple of Christmas ago and everyone bar me was on their phone at some point throughout the meal
I'm online a lot, but it's not like the late 90s/early 00s when getting online meant spending 10 minutes booting up a PC and connecting via dial up. And with streaming music and video, there's rarely a need to find a CD or VHS.
It's very easy to pick up a phone and have a quick look through GR, Twitter etc. I know when to put down the phone to concentrate on other stuff, so wouldn't class myself as "terminally" online.
Far too much. I'd happily get rid of my smart phone if I could find a feature phone with Google Maps and a good camera. There's a handful of other things I "need" it for (mostly stuff to help with travel anxiety) but I wouldn't miss large aspects of it. I use my phone as a crutch to avoid social interactions. To be honest, I probably use the internet as a crutch. I don't really have (m)any close friends*, any attempt to make friends always fails (sometime, but not always my fault), so the internet is my escape. Which then leads to it being even harder for me to even contemplate going out and socialising. Honestly, the internet has been great for allowing me to pursue interests I wouldn't be able to otherwise but in other ways it's been pretty damaging. I find it hard to decide which outweighs the other.
*I have friends at university and work but no one I really hangout with outside of these times. It's not like I don't make the effort either. They're happy to come along if I arrange something but I tend to get forgotten if they're doing the arranging. My closest friend is neck deep in her physics degree so I barely see her any more (not having a dig at her, I know how full on her degree is). I miss having close friends which is why I fall back on the internet.
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Robbo-92 wrote:...One thing I do despise (and never do myself other than checking the time) is using devices round the dinner table...
Oh, man, yeah. Now, I live alone so most of the time I'm watching my tablet or the TV whilst eating, but when I'm with other people - even more so in a cafe or a restaurant - just, no!
Robbo-92 wrote:...One thing I do despise (and never do myself other than checking the time) is using devices round the dinner table...
Oh, man, yeah. Now, I live alone so most of the time I'm watching my tablet or the TV whilst eating, but when I'm with other people - even more so in a cafe or a restaurant - just, no!
I do it when I’m eating alone, unless I’m watching a film or reading a magazine or something, it’s just rude doing it when you’re with other people in my opinion but the focus is scrolling through feeds on your phone, ignoring family members etc sat next to you.
Outrunner wrote:...Honestly, the internet has been great for allowing me to pursue interests I wouldn't be able to otherwise but in other ways it's been pretty damaging. I find it hard to decide which outweighs the other.
It's a tough call, isn't it, Outrunner? I so like the internet for information and communication... but I dislike it for information overload and (occasional) aggro.
Robbo-92 wrote:I do it when I’m eating alone, unless I’m watching a film or reading a magazine or something, it’s just rude doing it when you’re with other people in my opinion but the focus is scrolling through feeds on your phone, ignoring family members etc sat next to you.
Yeah, and it feels like those scenes are maybe becoming more typical. It'd be good to break away from those technology and behavioural chains!