StayDead wrote:Skarjo wrote:StayDead wrote:What sickens me is if it's true that there's been allegations of domestic abuse before, it's a retelling of a story that's been told so many times before.
Woman or man gets in relationship where they're abused, report it and nothing happens which eventually leads to their death by murder/manslaugter. It's strawberry floating sickening this happens so often and even worse when it happens to abused children.
Actually, in fairness (and I say this not without a degree of experience of the situation), the problem isn't people reporting it and the action not being taken; the problem is getting victims to report it in the first place and after that getting them to stick to the charges for long enough to get a prosecution.
That's fair enough I guess. I didn't really think of that large possibility when I was posting that in a rush.
Take it from someone who deals with domestics on a daily basis (yes every shift I work has at least 1) it's very difficult to identify the genuine issues from the disgruntled partners or minor arguments.
Occasionally there are real ones where there are issues, but more often than not they won't say what happened or if they do, they Wont provide a statement. Or if they do, they retract a week later. It's usually 1 word against another so without support they never get to court.
Then there are the bullshit allegations. Pissed off man or woman wants to get 1 up on the other, claims assault etc just to get them out of house for a day. Or to build up "evidence" for custody or divorce proceedings.
They say 8/10 murders are domestic related, so they are treated very seriously but more often than not its alcohol related arguments stemming from alterier motives or annoyance / jealousy from ex partners.
So when you say nothing happens, it's not quite that simple. If I had a pound for every domestic victim that wouldnt cooperate or retracted a day later once they calmed own, I'd be a very rich man.