site23 wrote:I enquired at some dentists when I was doing my Ph.D., and they told me they had two year waiting lists for NHS treatment. At the time it didn't seem worthwhile because I didn't know whether I'd be moving away or whatever at the end -- I figured that, although it's annoying and expensive, I would just sign up privately once I had, like, a real job and some money.
Then I graduated and the Covid lockdowns happened, so the dentists near me went emergencies-only for a couple of years.
They only started opening up for regular appointments again recently. So now I'm in the position of having not been for years and years, and I know I really should go and sign up now that it's available... but I'm dreading it as I think there's a good chance they'll want to do loads of work.
(Also, this is just me being whingy, but I get resentful about the whole thing because dentistry should be nationalised...)
If it helps I hadn't been to the dentist since checkups at primarily school based only on what I can remember, so about 22 years. This was essentially neglect as at least one of my parents could easily afford private care. My teeth were in excellent condition and they said very good brushing etc and even said "thank you" even though I only floss occasionally. They seemed a bit shocked. My mum says its genes. I only recently got back into the habit of brushing twice a day instead of before bed. But I did do some of my own scaling using various utensils that are basically the same for my work.
I chipped my enamel (but only cosmetic, I didn't know how deep my enamel was) a tiny bit maybe 6 months ago and filed it down myself. I got the tiniest filling ever they said wasn't in my bite but it was, so that broke but behind where it wasn't needed anyway. I filed that again and may get it polished. I kept tonguing it.
I also have some mystery discomfort due to my lymph nodes weaving between my molar roots, which is why I bit onto a spoon and chipped a molar. Nothing pathological apparently.
If you do brush and don't eat a huge amount of sugar (I pretty much don't eat sweets) it might not be as bad as you think. Don't be scared to look yourself.
I'm fortunate that while I was living in my hometown they were accepting NHS patients after covid. Maybe because they lost a bunch from isolation. I get tax credit exemption. But recently figured out I've spend a few thousand pounds on medication I didn't have to pay for. The whole system is a piss take considering we are meant to pay for "free" healthcare collectively. It's far too complicated and my partner for instance insisted for ages she couldn't get fillings done free and so never goes (were both eligible for level 1,2 and 3 treatments, I think some things are reduced cost and some cosmetics are not covered, like veneers or whitening).