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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Green Gecko » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:43 pm

Then why not just say prostitute, or escort?

"Rent boy" is a slur popularised a long time ago to denigrate male sex workers. Is that OK too?

Is it OK to make jokes about hookers? I don't agree with that either. Sex workers deserve respect.

If you seriously want to pick an argument with this one, which is basically your raison d'etre, go ahead in the feedback section. I'm not having some long arse argument about a 4 week ban for a shitty joke that is patently offensive. Or do you want to make queer people work for that?

Do you really want to do that?

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Preezy » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:45 pm

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Octoroc » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:48 pm

Green Gecko wrote:Then why not just say prostitute, or escort?

"Rent boy" is a slur popularised a long time ago to denigrate male sex workers. Is that OK too?

Is it OK to make jokes about hookers? I don't agree with that either. Sex workers deserve respect.

If you seriously want to pick an argument with this one, which is basically your raison d'etre, go ahead in the feedback section. I'm not having some long arse argument about a 4 week ban for a shitty joke that is patently offensive. Or do you want to make queer people work for that?

Do you really want to do that?


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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Moggy » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:51 pm

Green Gecko wrote:Then why not just say prostitute, or escort?

"Rent boy" is a slur popularised a long time ago to denigrate male sex workers. Is that OK too?

Is it OK to make jokes about hookers? I don't agree with that either. Sex workers deserve respect.

If you seriously want to pick an argument with this one, which is basically your raison d'etre, go ahead in the feedback section. I'm not having some long arse argument about a 4 week ban for a shitty joke that is patently offensive. Or do you want to make queer people work for that?

Do you really want to do that?


What in my post history suggests I'm ok with anti-gay slurs? Or disrespect to sex workers? I simply gave a view that a month's ban is ridiculously harsh for what amounts to a gooseberry fool joke. The exact same sort of gooseberry fool joke that is made in this forum about female sex workers.

At no point have I said it's ok to denigrate queer people, sex workers (of any sexuality) or suggested queer people have to "work for that". Those are things you've made up because you don't like being challenged.

If you think my entire "raison d'etre" is just picking fights, then I don't think we have much to say to each other. I'm sorry you feel that way, but it's sad that you'd stoop to this just because your authority is questioned.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Green Gecko » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:51 pm

Moggy wrote:
Green Gecko wrote:There is a very low likelihood in my opinion that anybody and everybody would be aware of that context, and whatever the intentions were, it is the impact that matters most. So without providing that context, it's both harmful, and negligent. For the benefit of doubt, one should include that context if they wish to criticise someone - and given the topic, what kind of random sideline would that be?

To refer to the article everyone is supposed to just know about, exactly because of the media blowout following Schofield's outing (which is itself questionable imo), that is a legal relationship aged 17-21 with anyone of any older age.

A "rent boy" can refer to pretty much anyone who is young, gay and young or "good"-looking. It is defined as a "young male prostitute".

Devoid of context, and only if that matters (I don't think it does), it amounts to "person is attracted to men, lol". Do we really need to justify that?"

It's not OK to vilify a gay person, or more generally gay people, if they are suspected of being merely sexually deviant. As it plays even worse into the homophobia that being queer is itself deviant, indecent, wrong, or even sick.

1 month is lenient.


It's pretty well known that Schofield allegedly likes young men. And there are plenty of us here that freely make jokes about hookers.

It's up to you, but I think a month's ban is ridiculously harsh, unless Floydfreak has a history of homophobia on here.

I am queer and I did not know about that.

If this is a problem for you, I suggest appealing for a straight administrator to have this argument with you instead.

Edit: IT'S A FOUR WEEK BAN ON A FORUM WITH ABOUT 400 USERS IN WHICH I DO NOT FEEL SAFE

strawberry float this gooseberry fool. You think I can't handle having my authority taken into question?

Am I not allowed to be bothered enough by that comment that I chose to exclude someone for 30 single days? Am I not allowed to take into consideration all of the other queer members of our community who probably didn't see that, or wouldn't see it, because it was quickly removed?

You guys think I am a lax, slack moderator. When I do something, all hell breaks lose.

strawberry float this gooseberry fool, you are argumentative, you are combative, and you love to whine when you have favour with another member. It's boring, it's tiresome, and it borders on gooseberry fool stirring and trolling.

These are my opinions. Get on with it then.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Moggy » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:52 pm

Green Gecko wrote:
Moggy wrote:
Green Gecko wrote:There is a very low likelihood in my opinion that anybody and everybody would be aware of that context, and whatever the intentions were, it is the impact that matters most. So without providing that context, it's both harmful, and negligent. For the benefit of doubt, one should include that context if they wish to criticise someone - and given the topic, what kind of random sideline would that be?

To refer to the article everyone is supposed to just know about, exactly because of the media blowout following Schofield's outing (which is itself questionable imo), that is a legal relationship aged 17-21 with anyone of any older age.

A "rent boy" can refer to pretty much anyone who is young, gay and young or "good"-looking. It is defined as a "young male prostitute".

Devoid of context, and only if that matters (I don't think it does), it amounts to "person is attracted to men, lol". Do we really need to justify that?"

It's not OK to vilify a gay person, or more generally gay people, if they are suspected of being merely sexually deviant. As it plays even worse into the homophobia that being queer is itself deviant, indecent, wrong, or even sick.

1 month is lenient.


It's pretty well known that Schofield allegedly likes young men. And there are plenty of us here that freely make jokes about hookers.

It's up to you, but I think a month's ban is ridiculously harsh, unless Floydfreak has a history of homophobia on here.

I am queer and I did not know about that.

If this is a problem for you, I suggest appealing for a straight administrator to have this argument with you instead.


You are the one who handed out a month's ban. I just commented.

If people querying your decisions is such a problem for you, then maybe you need to step back a bit.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Green Gecko » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:56 pm

Mate it's a strawberry floating month which is NOT a long time, and you are absolutely picking on something to bitch about.

Perhaps you should pipe down, back up, and strawberry float off instead of defending people for what you wholly admit is a gooseberry fool comment that shouldn't have been made, and then manoeuvring yourself out of it. It's insufferably dull.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Moggy » Mon Sep 26, 2022 2:58 pm

Green Gecko wrote:Mate it's a strawberry floating month which is NOT a long time, and you are absolutely picking on something to bitch about.

Perhaps you should pipe down, back up, and strawberry float off instead of defending people and then manoeuvring yourself out of it. It's insufferably dull.


Pipe down, back up and strawberry float off? Seriously?

strawberry float it, I'm done. I'm not being spoken to like that by you.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Preezy » Mon Sep 26, 2022 3:02 pm

Come on guys, let us not resort to our baser instincts. Everybody just take a deep breath and relax.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Qikz » Mon Sep 26, 2022 3:03 pm

I really think both sides here need to cool off. This doesn't help anyone.

Floyd shouldn't have said what he did in the first place which is why he's ended up banned. It's not a long ban at least, would've been perm in a lot of other places even if he didn't mean it in that way.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Jenuall » Mon Sep 26, 2022 3:08 pm

Yikes

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Albert » Mon Sep 26, 2022 3:11 pm

Lets all cool off for a couple of hours

Yes, appreciate Admin can still post but hopefully we can all refrain from posting for a bit and calm down a bit

I'll unlock at 5pm BST

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Albert » Mon Sep 26, 2022 4:59 pm

Personally I think Schofield and Willoughby should be disembowelled for what they have done.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by OrangeRKN » Mon Sep 26, 2022 5:06 pm

It's what she would have wanted

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Igor » Mon Sep 26, 2022 5:07 pm

Personally, I'd love it if we could dig her back up and do the show all over again, it was a right laugh! Maybe stick her in a funny pose this time, body should be stiff enough at this point.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Albert » Mon Sep 26, 2022 5:09 pm

I just want TV and News to go back to 24/7 Queen coverage.

Why would/should I care about Iran or Ukraine, they are literally miles away!

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by rinks » Mon Sep 26, 2022 5:19 pm

Why does Moggy look furious?

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by LewisD » Mon Sep 26, 2022 5:29 pm

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Return_of_the_STAR » Mon Sep 26, 2022 6:48 pm

Well that was an interesting read. Thanks to Albear for being a sensible moderator.

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PostRe: RIP Queen: Happy Boxing Day everyone
by Vermilion » Mon Sep 26, 2022 6:57 pm

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