NeoGAF owner accused of sexual assault - spin-off site Resetera launched

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by <]:^D » Mon Jul 02, 2018 1:23 pm

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by Jenuall » Mon Jul 02, 2018 1:29 pm

The controversy of "boys will be boys" came up as a discussion at work a while back and I found it hard to engage with the conversation at first because as some others have said in my experience the phrase was only ever used for minor/innocent scenarios, e.g. young boys being too full of energy and doing stupid, but not malicious or aggressive things. I've never experienced it being used as an excuse to wave away either young boys or adult men being dicks.

However as that is obviously how the phrase has come to be commonly used then I don't have a problem with people challenges its use in this case.

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by Photek » Tue Jul 03, 2018 11:09 am

Jenuall wrote:The controversy of "boys will be boys" came up as a discussion at work a while back and I found it hard to engage with the conversation at first because as some others have said in my experience the phrase was only ever used for minor/innocent scenarios, e.g. young boys being too full of energy and doing stupid, but not malicious or aggressive things. I've never experienced it being used as an excuse to wave away either young boys or adult men being dicks.

A secretary from another company that I dated back in the day for a bit constantly got felt up and patted on the ass at work do's, even about the office and she honestly didn't mind at all. I never got too serious with her so it didn't bother me either but yeah, 50-60 year old fat men would feel her up all the time and she laughed it off as 'boys will be boys' and told me stories all the time to me about "Mr X was very 'handsy' with me this morning, horny old bastard". She enjoyed all the attention though and she didn't change my view that being like that towards women is abhorrent

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by Jenuall » Tue Jul 03, 2018 11:27 am

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Jenuall wrote:The controversy of "boys will be boys" came up as a discussion at work a while back and I found it hard to engage with the conversation at first because as some others have said in my experience the phrase was only ever used for minor/innocent scenarios, e.g. young boys being too full of energy and doing stupid, but not malicious or aggressive things. I've never experienced it being used as an excuse to wave away either young boys or adult men being dicks.

A secretary from another company that I dated back in the day for constantly got felt up and patted on the ass at work do's, even about the office and she honestly didn't mind at all. I never got too serious with her so it didn't bother me either but yeah, 50-60 year old fat men would feel her up all the time and she laughed it off as 'boys will be boys' and told me stories all the time to me about "Mr X was very 'handsy' with me this morning, horny old bastard". She enjoyed all the attention though and she didn't change my view that being like that towards women is abhorrent


Absolutely that kind of behaviour is abhorrent, no two ways about it. It's just personally I have had no experience of the phrase "boys will be boys" being used to describe or excuse that kind of behaviour which is why initially there was a disconnect in my head around the issue.

My experience of that phrase was for example if I had been fighting with my brother when we were both young, or if climbing a tree I had fallen and hurt myself - in those instances my parents or some other adult would have exclaimed "boys will be boys!"

Like I say it's obvious that the phrase has a much broader and more troubling usage beyond my own experience so I totally get why there is an issue with it!

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by Lotus » Tue Jul 03, 2018 11:35 am

One of my old colleagues used to long for the days when she'd be felt up by male colleagues. She said she enjoyed it and loved the attention. Was quite bizarre.

Anyway, I associate 'boys will be boys' with boys playing and getting muddy, grazed knees, etc. Can't say I've heard it used to excuse rape...I feel like if that's happened it would be a very rare occurrence. For a t-shirt that's clearly aimed at children, and clearly pertaining to the idea of little boys messing around and being boisterous, seems heavy-handed to ban it. Not all that surprising though, sadly.

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by Mafro » Wed Jul 04, 2018 9:54 am

That site with all the ResetEra warnings and bans seems to be gone :cry:

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by Preezy » Wed Jul 04, 2018 9:56 am

It must have got banned :(

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by Ad7 » Fri Jul 06, 2018 6:09 am

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by Ad7 » Fri Jul 06, 2018 7:15 am

Messed up editing this :fp:

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by Moggy » Fri Jul 06, 2018 7:18 am

The PM was raped by the pig :lol:

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by Jenuall » Fri Jul 06, 2018 12:30 pm

Moggy wrote:The PM was raped by the pig :lol:


That's why she has to run through fields these days.


I know it's really a Cameron reference but I couldn't resist bringing Theresa in to the mix. :P

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by Moggy » Fri Jul 06, 2018 12:47 pm

Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:The PM was raped by the pig :lol:


That's why she has to run through fields these days.


I know it's really a Cameron reference but I couldn't resist bringing Theresa in to the mix. :P


It’s not a Cameron or May reference, it’s a reference to a fictional PM in a TV show.

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by Jenuall » Fri Jul 06, 2018 1:20 pm

Moggy wrote:
Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:The PM was raped by the pig :lol:


That's why she has to run through fields these days.


I know it's really a Cameron reference but I couldn't resist bringing Theresa in to the mix. :P


It’s not a Cameron or May reference, it’s a reference to a fictional PM in a TV show.


Fair do's, I thought it was a pig-gate reference!

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by lex-man » Fri Jul 06, 2018 1:24 pm

Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:
Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:The PM was raped by the pig :lol:


That's why she has to run through fields these days.


I know it's really a Cameron reference but I couldn't resist bringing Theresa in to the mix. :P


It’s not a Cameron or May reference, it’s a reference to a fictional PM in a TV show.


Fair do's, I thought it was a pig-gate reference!


Cameron willingly but his private member in a swine so it's not rape, allegedly.

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by Moggy » Fri Jul 06, 2018 1:36 pm

lex-man wrote:
Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:
Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:The PM was raped by the pig :lol:


That's why she has to run through fields these days.


I know it's really a Cameron reference but I couldn't resist bringing Theresa in to the mix. :P


It’s not a Cameron or May reference, it’s a reference to a fictional PM in a TV show.


Fair do's, I thought it was a pig-gate reference!


Cameron willingly but his private member in a swine so it's not rape, allegedly.


It was a dead pig so it’s more bestiality-necrophilia than rape.

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by Jenuall » Fri Jul 06, 2018 1:41 pm

Moggy wrote:
lex-man wrote:
Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:
Jenuall wrote:
Moggy wrote:The PM was raped by the pig :lol:


That's why she has to run through fields these days.


I know it's really a Cameron reference but I couldn't resist bringing Theresa in to the mix. :P


It’s not a Cameron or May reference, it’s a reference to a fictional PM in a TV show.


Fair do's, I thought it was a pig-gate reference!


Cameron willingly but his private member in a swine so it's not rape, allegedly.


It was a dead pig so it’s more bestiality-necrophilia than rape.


Either way our Dave sure knows how to have a good time! :toot:

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PostRe: NeoGAF owner accused of sexual assault - spin-off site Resetera launched
by Dangerblade » Sat Jul 07, 2018 5:09 pm

Do you get naked in front of your pet?

https://www.resetera.com/threads/do-you ... pet.53821/

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by Mafro » Sun Jul 08, 2018 9:26 pm

https://www.resetera.com/threads/should ... ain.53907/
A few things happened to me and my boyfriend and I'd like to know who's to blame here. Am I a cold person or is my boyfriend overreacting?

It all started yesterday when my boyfriend was having dinner. I didn't eat because I wasn't hungry. I always feed him when we have this particual dish, but now I didn't feed him and he's mad about it. We didn't sleep all night because we discussed this happening.

He also told me that I forgot to prepare two roti's for him, which I did forget. But in the end there was more than enough food.

Then he started to complain about the fact that I didn't turn on the video during our phone conversation we had last night, asking me if I really miss him while he's away.

Am I not being attentive enough or is my boyfriend overreacting? It's tiring!

Bt the way...I'm 34 years old and from Kosovo and he's 37 years from Mauritius, so we both have our temperament.

Yes, physically feeding him. Cutting the food and putting it in his mouth. Handfeeding.

I want to talk about him but he's constantly watching soccer. And tonight he's insisting that I massage his feet. But I'm so sick amd tired of this.

Did I make him like this?

He's not disabled by the way. A very healthy Mauritian man.

And yes, I feed him that particular dish. But I just didn't feel like doing it anymorem

Oh rite :dread:

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