Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x

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by Corazon de Leon » Sun Mar 05, 2017 5:39 pm

Why post here in the relationship advice thread if you're going to dismiss quite casually all of the advice that's given about your potential relationship?

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Moggy » Sun Mar 05, 2017 5:47 pm

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Fade wrote:You guys really don't like people who do things differently to yourselves do you? Every time I post in here I get some kind of gooseberry fool for doing things differently.


Because you're coming in here and making huge sweeping statements that are blatantly misguided, like the fact that no decent relationship starts with sex.

Tone it down a bit grandad.


That's almost exactly what I was going to say.

Fade, you've come into the thread for advice and rather than listen to anybody you've basically just laughed at the idea that people can get intimate quickly and yet still end up in a long term loving relationship.

Why that sounds ridiculous to us is because the majority of us are in long term relationships that started getting sexual quickly while you are asking for advice on how to kiss a girl after 5 dates.

It's fine that you/her/both want to take it slow. I certainly wouldn't judge you for that. The issue was with your condescending sounding posts on those of us that are not chaste until we've been married for 3 years.

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Fade » Sun Mar 05, 2017 5:59 pm

I didn't ask for any advice after responding to Banjo.

And I originally asked for advice from people that had dated overly shy girls.

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Ad7 » Sun Mar 05, 2017 6:04 pm

I have never dated a shy girl, don't think I could have back in the day.

My Mrs and I floated after our first date and we're getting married, it happens.

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Moggy » Sun Mar 05, 2017 6:31 pm

Fade wrote:I didn't ask for any advice after responding to Banjo.

And I originally asked for advice from people that had dated overly shy girls.


Whatever dude :lol:

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Tafdolphin » Sun Mar 05, 2017 7:43 pm

Fade:

Asks question, gets answers, ignores answers, tells everyone that sex is a terrible basis for a relationship, gets offended, rides off into the sexless sunset.

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Fade » Sun Mar 05, 2017 8:01 pm

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Rax » Mon Mar 06, 2017 10:45 am

Tafdolphin wrote:Fade:

Asks question, gets answers, ignores answers, tells everyone that sex is a terrible basis for a relationship, gets offended, rides off into the sexless sunset, posts gif

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Poser » Mon Mar 06, 2017 2:32 pm

At least we know now whose alt N1FFF is.

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Karl » Mon Mar 06, 2017 3:00 pm

Yo Fade, I am quite shy and my girlfriend is also quite shy. It took us quite a while to get to know each other, and I probably waited a bit too long to make my intentions clear -- I was pretty low on self-confidence at the time. Regardless, it worked out and once we knew for sure how we felt about each other the relationship progressed reasonably quickly. The way I see it shyness is definitely a barrier to making that first step but it doesn't mean you or her want intimacy any less than a 'not shy' couple, and you say you've been on a half-dozen dates, so I think it's reasonable to say she does know you well enough to make a decision on whether she wants to try having a relationship with you or not.

If you've really made your intentions clear I would be a bit worried about the lack of reciprocation at this stage. If not, you don't have to be super pushy, but she has to know that you like her in a girlfriend way rather than just as a mate. Maybe you've said that you do, but if you aren't acting on it at all then she might be wondering if you really mean it.

Also, you shouldn't be so dismissive of other people's relationship advice. I'm sure it's not intentional but your attitude comes across as a bit rude to be honest, and that's why the thread turns a bit hostile when you post.

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by Finiarél » Wed Apr 05, 2017 6:53 pm

So. I'm going to her Dads house on Saturday for permission to ask her to marry me... :dread: :dread: :dread: :dread:

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by That's not a growth » Wed Apr 05, 2017 7:00 pm

I only glanced and thought you were fade for a second and assumed something alarming had happened.

It's that really normal these days? Good luck anyway!

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Corazon de Leon » Wed Apr 05, 2017 7:08 pm

Good luck buddy!

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Rocsteady » Wed Apr 05, 2017 8:56 pm

Christ that seems archaic, fair play though.

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by Cheeky Devlin » Thu Apr 06, 2017 12:14 am

It's old fashioned but it's a nice touch I think. Though it does run the risk of him saying "strawberry float no" and ruining all the plans.

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by smurphy » Thu Apr 06, 2017 1:06 am

Well she's her father's property so if he didn't ask it would be like stealing.

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Tomous » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:51 am

It depends on the people involved I think.

On the face of it, it does seem a tad outdated but people also like tradition.

I have a mate who knew his gf and her father would appreciate it so decided to it before popping the question. Problem was they live in different countries so he had to do it over a weekend they were visiting home and he couldn't find a quiet moment to do it subtlety. He ended up panicking and doing it in a supermarket aisle while his gf and future mother in law were round the corner. They came back round and couldn't work out why the 2 of them were having an emotional hug infront of the baked beans :slol:

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Rightey » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:54 am

I asked my wife's dad if I could marry her as well before we were married, although I did ask my wife first. Good thing he said yes or that might have been awkward :slol:

Actually it was already awkward as he's in Japan, so I had to do it over Skype, and I only memorized the lines that I needed to ask for her, so my wife had to be there to help me say "He want's to talk to you for a bit"... Oh and her whole family was also around the computer, so I couldn't even do it discretely. :lol: :fp:

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Tomous » Thu Apr 06, 2017 5:15 am

Rightey wrote:I asked my wife's dad if I could marry her as well before we were married, although I did ask my wife first. Good thing he said yes or that might have been awkward :slol:

Actually it was already awkward as he's in Japan, so I had to do it over Skype, and I only memorized the lines that I needed to ask for her, so my wife had to be there to help me say "He want's to talk to you for a bit"... Oh and her whole family was also around the computer, so I couldn't even do it discretely. :lol: :fp:


This sounds like something out of a comedy film :lol:

A Jim from American Pie esque character trying to marry his Japanese gf has to ask her disapproving father first-with hilarious consequences!

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PostRe: Relationship Thread V.2 - Canyonero! :x
by Moggy » Thu Apr 06, 2017 7:40 am

I didn't even tell my wife that the wedding was going to happen. :slol:


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