Sex - Your views

Anung Un Rama wrote:

Balloon Sod wrote:Only ever slept with my girlfriend of about 6/7 years. Wouldn't change a thing.

I could choose to misread that.....but im not going to!

6-7 years is a long time! Jeez.

Prototype wrote:

Andrew Mills wrote:I've had way more sexual partners than a geek like me probably should have, but I have had a very low resistance to attractive women who show an interest in me I've had a fair few one night stands (probably the majority of my partners actually), and I've taken the virginity of around 8 women I believe (not as great as that my initially sound, due to the 'emotional' result afterwards with them).

I've slept with not very attractive women, average women and a few absolutely (genuinely) beautiful women (which has always brought a smile to my face when I think about the beautiful ones). And even though I'm now engaged, it can still be tough to resist temptation when I'm at work training courses and out socialising, but ultimately, it must be done (and it's actually quite empowering to say no to women now).

Sex is great though, when it's varied and passionate. Sex with restrictive (i.e. not very experimental/narrow-minded) women is crap as it can ruin what would have been a great night. I've probably not been as 'safe' as I should have been with women in the past, but I've never been the biggest fan of condoms. Granted, they are definitely there for a reason, but it really DOES ruin the feeling, even when using those ultra-thin ones

Still working in the Dundee branch?

Andrew Mills wrote:Nah mate, I now work for a bank down in Hull (and have done since February last year). But I had pretty much 85% of my sexual encounters in Dundee (seeing as I lived there for 9 years).

Red wrote:

Tafdolphin wrote:Dont understand one night stands...probably never will do. A large part of sex for me is the personal aspect; sharing the experience with someone you love. The idea of humping a smutty bird with big tits round the back if Aldi doesn't really do it for me. Not that it makes me think amy less if people who do enjoy that sort of thing.

Yeah, cos that's all a one-night stand can be...

I've never seen sex as much more than a bit of fun, in or out of a relationship. I've never really understood why so much emotional bullshit gets attached to it, although there is something subtly different about sex with someone you love I guess. I've had sex in a relationship, one night stands and usually have a fuckbuddy of some kind when not attached to anyone specifically, like at the moment, and I've had sex with men and women. It makes me sound like I've had loads of the stuff but tbh I can be pretty picky and I'm never so desperate for a shag that I'll **** whatever drunk moron comes along first.

Andrew Mills wrote:

Prototype wrote:

Andrew Mills wrote:I've had way more sexual partners than a geek like me probably should have, but I have had a very low resistance to attractive women who show an interest in me I've had a fair few one night stands (probably the majority of my partners actually), and I've taken the virginity of around 8 women I believe (not as great as that my initially sound, due to the 'emotional' result afterwards with them).

I've slept with not very attractive women, average women and a few absolutely (genuinely) beautiful women (which has always brought a smile to my face when I think about the beautiful ones). And even though I'm now engaged, it can still be tough to resist temptation when I'm at work training courses and out socialising, but ultimately, it must be done (and it's actually quite empowering to say no to women now).

Sex is great though, when it's varied and passionate. Sex with restrictive (i.e. not very experimental/narrow-minded) women is crap as it can ruin what would have been a great night. I've probably not been as 'safe' as I should have been with women in the past, but I've never been the biggest fan of condoms. Granted, they are definitely there for a reason, but it really DOES ruin the feeling, even when using those ultra-thin ones

Still working in the Dundee branch?

Nah mate, I now work for a bank down in Hull (and have done since February last year). But I had pretty much 85% of my sexual encounters in Dundee (seeing as I lived there for 9 years).

Gil-Martin wrote:

Andrew Mills wrote:Nah mate, I now work for a bank down in Hull (and have done since February last year). But I had pretty much 85% of my sexual encounters in Dundee (seeing as I lived there for 9 years).

When did you live in Dundee? I was there from '94-'98 (with stints at St. Andrews scattered about).

DeStills and Mardi Gras were the biggest meat markets I've ever, ever had the pleasure of visiting. Great times.

ItsNotLupus wrote:I believe its a term for a person relatively inactive in sex.


i.e. just lays there.