Sex - Your views

Mayne, sex is an animal instinct, you ain't gotta love or even like a chick to be able to strawberry float 'em.

Why are some heads on here totally against one night stands though mayne??? It's all about the moment, ya dig???

Also, if you want to get into a long term relationship or whatever before you shag them, how long do you wait then???

IMO, sex is a fundamental part of a relationship, so if you haven't got the right sexual connection it can put stress on the relationship from my experience, so even if you like a girl you need to shag her in at least the first month of dating her.

~Earl Grey~ wrote:

Gario wrote:My housemate went for a check-up the other week and he was found to have three different STIs. Luckily they were all easily cured with creams and tablets.

I'm just glad Dessler doesn't come here anymore. Pan would be furious if any of this got out.

I think you mean Debelius, and I don't mean Pan when I say my housemate. We haven't lived together since 2005 - please keep up.

suzzopher wrote:

Raze wrote:

suzzopher wrote:

KKLEIN wrote:

suzzopher wrote:I love sex. You have to keep it interesting though in a relationship so that it doesn't become a chore.

Got round to 'shower sex' yet?

Yeah now we have this shelf thing I can rest her on, it makes it much easier.

I am wanting to inroduce cosplay but she isn' so keen.....yet.

Maybe she doesn't think a Tails costume would suit her?

I was thinking more along these lines:

i thought youd go for a ninja suit Suzz

A mate of mind, he's about 33, is seeing a girl of 25 who claims to be a virgin. I've only met her once, she seems like a nice enough girl but you can't really tell anything from an hour down the pub, but she looks like she's been round the track a few times to me - anyway, they've been going out for about four months now and she still hasn't put out for the guy.

I knew another lad a few years ago, he was was going out with a girl, they were living together, she obviously didn't fancy him any more, told him she couldn't have sex for medical reasons. He went a year without strawberry floating her, and all the while she was boning some other guy behind his back.

My conclusion isn't that all women are lying whores, it's that sex is a healthy part of any relationship. The bit about all women being lying whores is just incidental.

Hexx wrote:

Beans wrote:If it is consenting and doesn't involve animals or children, people can do what they want. I've had a few one night stands and even a **** buddy at one point, but I much prefer relationship sex. Plus I probably on average have sex everyday with my girlfriend. Tell me any single person who gets it even once a week on average.

Gaz

But it's easy to get when you frequent saunas! Everyone, and I mean everyone, is there for one reason. It's the same reason for everyone so your chances of getting laid increase as you lower your standards.

moi wrote:A mate of mind, he's about 33, is seeing a girl of 25 who claims to be a virgin. I've only met her once, she seems like a nice enough girl but you can't really tell anything from an hour down the pub, but she looks like she's been round the track a few times to me - anyway, they've been going out for about four months now and she still hasn't put out for the guy.

I knew another lad a few years ago, he was was going out with a girl, they were living together, she obviously didn't fancy him any more, told him she couldn't have sex for medical reasons. He went a year without ******* her, and all the while she was boning some other guy behind his back.

My conclusion isn't that all women are lying whores, it's that sex is a healthy part of any relationship. The bit about all women being lying whores is just incidental.

why she even with him that seems like a lot of effort. Im amazingly lazy. I dont think i could cheat on someone as it would be far to much effort and hastle.

BobbyDigital wrote:Mayne, sex is an animal instinct, you ain't gotta love or even like a chick to be able to **** 'em.

Why are some heads on here totally against one night stands though mayne??? It's all about the moment, ya dig???

Also, if you want to get into a long term relationship or whatever before you shag them, how long do you wait then???

IMO, sex is a fundamental part of a relationship, so if you haven't got the right sexual connection it can put stress on the relationship from my experience, so even if you like a girl you need to shag her in at least the first month of dating her.

Id like to add him to the 'What would it take to make you punch someone' thread.

Tafdolphin wrote:Dont understand one night stands...probably never will do. A large part of sex for me is the personal aspect; sharing the experience with someone you love. The idea of humping a smutty bird with big tits round the back if Aldi doesn't really do it for me. Not that it makes me think amy less if people who do enjoy that sort of thing.

Yeah, cos that's all a one-night stand can be...

I've never seen sex as much more than a bit of fun, in or out of a relationship. I've never really understood why so much emotional bullshit gets attached to it, although there is something subtly different about sex with someone you love I guess. I've had sex in a relationship, one night stands and usually have a fuckbuddy of some kind when not attached to anyone specifically, like at the moment, and I've had sex with men and women. It makes me sound like I've had loads of the stuff but tbh I can be pretty picky and I'm never so desperate for a shag that I'll strawberry float whatever drunk moron comes along first.

degoose wrote:why she even with him that seems like a lot of effort. Im amazingly lazy. I dont think i could cheat on someone as it would be far to much effort and hastle.

I think some people are just like that, can't face breaking up the relationship so they try and make the other person end it by being unreasonable, I dunno really. I've got another mate, lovely guy, having an affair with another girl but he won't break up with his girlfriend who it seems like he basically can't stand any more, because he knows she'll make it really difficult to break up - he tried to do it a few months ago and she had (or feigned) a panic attack in the kitchen, he had to call an ambulance for her. She is awful though, closet BNP, christ knows how he got with her in the first place.

Eh, well I'm still virgin but it's not say that I'm not experienced either. (Uh, grammar help!)

I'd say one night stands would be nice and fun, but to be honest I'd be scared of them. When I say I'll go for it, I'd back off. Maybe I just don't feel comfortable doing it with someone I don't know at all.

However with my circle of friends (gay ones) - let's say it has given me few experiences, after all. In short, I'm sure sex is amazing, but at same time I'm really looking for someone special, mostly a guy I can love.

And what's this talk about gay heroes....? Am I one of them? Probably not.

Carlos wrote:

BobbyDigital wrote:Mayne, sex is an animal instinct, you ain't gotta love or even like a chick to be able to **** 'em.

Why are some heads on here totally against one night stands though mayne??? It's all about the moment, ya dig???

Also, if you want to get into a long term relationship or whatever before you shag them, how long do you wait then???

IMO, sex is a fundamental part of a relationship, so if you haven't got the right sexual connection it can put stress on the relationship from my experience, so even if you like a girl you need to shag her in at least the first month of dating her.

Id like to add him to the 'What would it take to make you punch someone' thread.

Huh??? Did I offened you or something mayne??? If not stop acting like a

Seven is gay? How come I got a note for your SS gift saying no gay stuff?

Fatal Exception wrote:Seven is gay? How come I got a note for your SS gift saying no gay stuff?

I would allow it but my gran doesn't know that I'm gay, so opening it in front of her...isn't ideal. (Rest of my family knows I'm gay though).

Fatal Exception wrote:Seven is gay? How come I got a note for your SS gift saying no gay stuff?

If I remember something about his gran or Aunty being a hardcore right wing christian conservative extremist who owns a handgun.

Hexx wrote:

Fatal Exception wrote:Seven is gay? How come I got a note for your SS gift saying no gay stuff?

If I remember something about his gran or Aunty being a hardcore right wing christian conservative extremist who owns a handgun.

Not that far! Just Gran's old fashionable and I don't think it'd be good idea to let her know. She doesn't need to know, anyway.

You see, you're lucky I didn't know this before. If I'd known I would have got you some uber gay stuff just for the lulz.

Fatal Exception wrote:You see, you're lucky I didn't know this before. If I'd known I would have got you some uber gay stuff just for the lulz.

Phew! (Then again there's GRc SS 2009 later this year so I might not be lucky next time even if I got someone different )

Seven wrote:

Fatal Exception wrote:You see, you're lucky I didn't know this before. If I'd known I would have got you some uber gay stuff just for the lulz.

Phew! (Then again there's GRc SS 2009 later this year so I might not be lucky next time even if I got someone different )

Oh there is, is there?

Also - I was tempted to change the little note that went to FE to "gay stuff please! His vibrator's just broken!"

Hexx wrote:

Seven wrote:

Fatal Exception wrote:You see, you're lucky I didn't know this before. If I'd known I would have got you some uber gay stuff just for the lulz.

Phew! (Then again there's GRc SS 2009 later this year so I might not be lucky next time even if I got someone different )

Oh there is, is there?

Also - I was tempted to change the little note that went to FE to "gay stuff please! His vibrator's just broken!"

Forgot to add "if" in that sentence.
And I had a feeling you might want to do that Hexx

Raze wrote:It's wrong and should be stopped at all costs.