Relationships Thread

[Archaeon]

Well in your case it was still her dad...

[OnlyShallow]

It was neither. She just enjoyed telling lies.

[Archaeon]

Woah, seriously? That's strawberry floated up. I wonder if the dad or brother ever knew about it. How do you even react? Your sister/daughter tells someone that you raped her? Man. Good thing she's an ex-.

[OnlyShallow]

I hate to think of the lies she told about me once we split. I bumped into her best mate a few years later and was expecting the worst. Instead what I got was "Stopped talking to her years ago.... Don't know how you managed to stick with her for so long...... Did you know that she told my mum and dad that my brother (who was gay) had come on to you.... Lying two faced bitch.... etc etc"

Other lies she told me "Oh my ex fiancee was a drug dealer. He got caught and hung himself". The biggest lie was probably "I love you".

[Tafdolphin]

Happy Easter.

Seriously though, that's horrible.

[Oh Teh Noes]

How come you split up?

[Henke]

In school a lassie I was mates with cried rape at one of my mates after a party when we were in final year. It went pretty far with the police until she backed down before things went so far that there was no turning back and she admitted she was talking out her arse.

Girls lie about gooseberry fool like that. Obviously not all of them, but yeah it's not unheard of. Not that I'm saying Smurphy's lassie lied. I don't know what I'm saying - help.

[Fatal Exception]

It's one of those no win situations. It's just one person's word against another.

[Tafdolphin]

Not quite the same but one of my housemates slept with my mate, and when he cut contact she started going on about missing her period and gettin pregnancy tests and the like. It was utter bullshit, but not so obvious that it wasn't taken serious for a while. I somehow got stuck right in the middle of it to as the go-between. Urgh.

[Archaeon]

OS's ex sounds proper crazy.
Henke that's also messed up. What would bring her to do such a thing? Was she really raped once but never told anyone, so she took it out on your friend? I know lying about being raped is an awful thing to do, but before everyone jumps to the "lying bitch, bitches be crazy yo" conclusion it's better to treat each case individually, as there might be more to each story.

Smurphy, talk to her friends, maybe? I really dunno what I'd do in your situation. Adult situation how does it work. I'm literally as good as Staydead for these kinds of things.

archaeon out

[smurphy]

I offered to talk to her friends about it, but she doesn't want them to know. The only other person who knows is the person she was with in London, who sounds pretty useless. If things do get suspicious I could send them a message on FB to confirm I suppose, though if she found out I asked...

[Mafro]

In school a lassie I was mates with cried rape at one of my mates after a party when we were in final year. It went pretty far with the police until she backed down before things went so far that there was no turning back and she admitted she was talking out her arse.

Girls lie about gooseberry fool like that. Obviously not all of them, but yeah it's not unheard of. Not that I'm saying Smurphy's lassie lied. I don't know what I'm saying - help.

Bet that guy's life has been pretty much ruined

[OnlyShallow]

I don't know what I'm saying - help.

How come you split up?

Oh, we had both stopped smoking and but she always smelled of cigarettes. One day the kitchen sink was blocked. I unscrewed the U bend only to find it was blocked with Marlboro light fag ends. When quizzed she said "Oh, my mum was around to visit and she didn't want to use an ashtray since we don't smoke any more so she put all of her cigarettes in the sink." "Your mum smokes Berkeleys" "Ah well, they didn't have any in the shop so she bought Marlboro lights" "Right...."

There was also the packet of condoms in her handbag, the fact she was a crap strawberry float, the time she spat on our neighbour's front door, the time she stole from another neighbour. Everything about her really.

[smurphy]

Chronic liars.

I thank my lucky stars I've never associated with one.

[Oh Teh Noes]

She sounds like a right gooseberry fool OS.

[SEP]

She sounds like a right gooseberry fool OS.

What, like Windows ME?

[Oh Teh Noes]

Windows ME was fine

[OnlyShallow]

Aye, so, Smurphy. Not saying she is a liar, but keep it as a possibility. Someone who is willing to be a FWB will be insecure by nature....

[Henke]

In school a lassie I was mates with cried rape at one of my mates after a party when we were in final year. It went pretty far with the police until she backed down before things went so far that there was no turning back and she admitted she was talking out her arse.

Girls lie about gooseberry fool like that. Obviously not all of them, but yeah it's not unheard of. Not that I'm saying Smurphy's lassie lied. I don't know what I'm saying - help.

Bet that guy's life has been pretty much ruined

I don't know if there's any connection, but the guy hit a real low point for a few years when he left school. Checked into rehab, suicide attempts, heavy medication, the works.

The lassie was a complete mental case. It became obvious after that incident, but the time when she lied about having cancer a while after put it beyond doubt.

[Oblomov Boblomov]

Pulled last night and this girl took me back to her house. As soon as I got in I threw up everywhere and she freaked out at me and basically just told me to strawberry float off. No sex this time .