Relationships Thread

Buffalo wrote:She sounds like an absolute boiler. Run away, fast.

Oh she is. 19 and apparently had two proposals already.

Jay

Here's a third.

I propose she gets sectioned.

Buffalo wrote:Here's a third.

I propose she gets sectioned.

She's his problem now. I can just take pleasure in being a git and mocking her when he's a knob.

As a nurse - i concur. Want me to do it?

I have the power!

To be honest, I've been waiting for Jigger to post something like this. I have never been in, nor seen a relationship where one or the other actually has to say 'we need to see less of each other because I haven't had a moment to myself in 10 days' last longer than about 6 weeks.

A J Styles wrote:Jay

Cheers bro, we're gonna try and go back to where we were before we started dating, I.e. really close friends. I think I can at least give her that.

Igor wrote:To be honest, I've been waiting for Jigger to post something like this. I have never been in, nor seen a relationship where one or the other actually has to say 'we need to see less of each other because I haven't had a moment to myself in 10 days' last longer than about 6 weeks.

It's a little deeper than that, I would post more but it feels like I'd be disrespecting her talking about it here.

Isnt that like the whole point of this thread?

Seriously?

If I may, it sounds like you've put her on a pedestal so high that she needs a parachute incase the wind sends her falling to her doom. How can talking about your problems to people you don't know and will more than likely never meet be disrespectful?

Obviously I don't know the details so I'm sorry if I'm jumping to conclusions and mean no disrespect. It's something to think about though. Women rarely want to be treated like goddesses.

Falsey wrote:Isnt that like the whole point of this thread?

Man has a point.

Fine, we've been friends now for about 10 months, we've been getting closer and closer throughout time, cut a long story short we got together about a month ago, and we've been taking it slow, but she keeps seeing me as her ex boyfriend, she walked out on like 3 years ago.

Not in a bad way, more like similarities, and it's really gotten to me obviously.

The problem is I've fallen for her, yet she is still so unsure, she is not sure if she is seeing me for me, or seeing her ex boyfriend through me.

Sounds like shes a bit wacko then. If she likes you, which she seems to, then shes just making excuses.

Probably time for roofies or something.

Back off and don't be her friend for a while. You'll want to, but it's the best course of action. If you continue 'being friends', she still won't see you as anything different to how she does now. If you're no longer around, she'll be able to decide whether she's missing you as a friend, or missing you as a partner.

Anyway man, your bro Falsey has got your back. Ill refuse to testify in court.

Igor's advice is good, but at the same time, I can't just back off as such, whenever I go from one extreme to another my mind just doesn't function properly, if i shut her out then my mind will quickly move on and it'll be harder to actually get back to being just friends.

Falsey wrote:Sounds like shes a bit wacko then. If she likes you, which she seems to, then shes just making excuses.

Probably time for roofies or something.

The thing is, she is, (Yes to liking me and making excuses)

When we are together there are no problems, it's when we are apart she breaks it down mentally to the point where she is finding faults in this, i.e. pushing me away.

Sleep on it, and give it a proper cool off ie. not calling her everyday.

Sounds like a plan.... I'll get back to you.

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