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smurphy wrote:Totally managed to seduce her, then moments from the big finish she told me she was almost raped three weeks ago.

I've never been in a position like that before. No one else even knows apart from a friend of her's who didn't seem to do anything. Feels bad mayne.

Ps my balls are in agony right now.

Almost is the key word there. Don't make the same mistake he did. Ask her about it, maybe you can work out where he went wrong.

Errkal wrote:
Tafdolphin wrote:
qupe wrote:I am meeting a girl off POF tomorrow. I don't know when I should tell her I could potentially be a father again in a few months. Should I bring it up before we meet? Or see how it goes and then tell her?

Mate, if you're meeting a girl off POF chances are she's got at least 3 herself. Another one ain't gonna hurt.

I'd just meet her don't bring it up unless it comes up in conversation. I imagine she will find it very weird if you introduce yourself with the line "Hi, I'm going to be a dad again soon."

I told her now before we met and this lady has been great, really understanding.

I have no idea what's going on with pof, I have never had so much interest off women in my life. I like this lady, she teaches martial arts and she seems to be very down to earth, she is my age (yes tafdolphin she has kids). Fingers crossed the date goes ok.

qupe wrote:
Errkal wrote:
Tafdolphin wrote:
qupe wrote:I am meeting a girl off POF tomorrow. I don't know when I should tell her I could potentially be a father again in a few months. Should I bring it up before we meet? Or see how it goes and then tell her?

Mate, if you're meeting a girl off POF chances are she's got at least 3 herself. Another one ain't gonna hurt.

I'd just meet her don't bring it up unless it comes up in conversation. I imagine she will find it very weird if you introduce yourself with the line "Hi, I'm going to be a dad again soon."

I told her now before we met and this lady has been great, really understanding.

I have no idea what's going on with pof, I have never had so much interest off women in my life. I like this lady, she teaches martial arts and she seems to be very down to earth, she is my age (yes tafdolphin she has kids). Fingers crossed the date goes ok.

Fingers crossed.

Serious advice needed about this attempted rape. Basically she was getting a tattoo on her upper leg, then when they were done the big black guy who did it offered to massage her leg to get rid of the redness. She stupidly said yes, but after that he locked the door and held her down. He touched her all over and started to finger her. I don't know how it ended because she started crying and I told her to stop. I don't think it went any further though.

This happened in London, we live in Scotland. She is too ashamed to talk to pretty much anyone about it, but I was thinking the police pretty much need told. This guy could be doing this all the time, or worse. I offered to talk to them, at least just to report it if she didn't want anything more to do with it.

And even though it's a secret, I feel I can share this here because of how separate it is from my real life. Please don't joke around about this please.

That's pretty strawberry floated up.

Get the police involved now.

Ad7 wrote:That's pretty strawberry floated up.

Get the police involved now.

Absolutely. Get the police involved right away.

Ever heard of immersion therapy?

Ask her again to go through the story, get all the gory details. When she is getting to the end, start massaging her leg, lock the door, stick your fist right up there and get the job done.

That way, she wont be scared of it happening again because it already has. It doesnt get any worse so she'll just chill the strawberry float out.

I honestly can't tell if that's something serious or a really inappropriate joke.

If you get the police involved without her say so, get ready to lose her friendship. She needs to be the one who makes the decision, not you.

Falsey wrote:Ever heard of immersion therapy?

Ask her again to go through the story, get all the gory details. When she is getting to the end, start massaging her leg, lock the door, stick your fist right up there and get the job done.

That way, she wont be scared of it happening again because it already has. It doesnt get any worse so she'll just chill the strawberry float out.

strawberry floating learn some social graces, FFS. :fp:

WARNED.

Sorry to hear about this, smurphy. I guess the trouble is that it's been 3 weeks. Not entirely sure what the police could do.

What the point in a FWB if she isnt gonna put out?

Falsey wrote::lol:

What the point in a FWB if she isnt gonna put out?

What's the point in a forumite who's just going to post like a prick all the time? Sort yourself out, for strawberry float's sake.

Why so sensitive? Id understand if it was smurph who was (nearly) raped, but it wasnt. You dont even know the chick.

She seems pretty forward so maybe she lead this other fella on? You just dont know unless you have all the evidence.

Falsey wrote:Why so sensitive?

Yes, because it's being "sensitive" to object to someone joking about rape after being specifically asked not to by the forumite concerned.

Falsey wrote:You dont even know the chick.

Completely irrelevant.

Falsey wrote:She seems pretty forward so maybe she lead this other fella on?

Yep, I'm just about getting to "HOUSE" on misogynist bingo.

Tafdolphin wrote:I honestly can't tell if that's something serious or a really inappropriate joke.

If you get the police involved without her say so, get ready to lose her friendship. She needs to be the one who makes the decision, not you.

Agree with this, you need to talk to her about telling the police. This guy could have tried it on other clients too or potentially could again.

Eighthours wrote:Yep, I'm just about getting to "HOUSE" on misogynist bingo.

How about;

Man up, because bitches dont like crybaby men who are scared of getting a little raping done?

Lets face facts, she decided she wanted to nob smurphy after spotting him momentarily at the roadside. Now, this sounds like a precious women of virtue to me, but whats to say the same thing didnt happen with tattoo mcwanderinghand?

You can play the naivety card if you like, but the chick has to be medically retarded if she thinks agreeing to let some fella massage her crotch isnt a little forward.

Just to clarify, the "get the police involved" response is only in the sense of "try and convince her to get the police involved", not "do it behind her back".

As for Falsey's argument, we all know where you're going with this. Whether that's the case isn't for any of us to decide, so it's not really worth discussing, is it?

Heskimo wrote:Just to clarify, the "get the police involved" response is only in the sense of "try and convince her to get the police involved", not "do it behind her back".

This.

What if she calls the police, they speak to rapey, he doesnt get convicted, then finds and rapes her and smurphy?

Falsey wrote:
Eighthours wrote:Yep, I'm just about getting to "HOUSE" on misogynist bingo.

How about;

Man up, because bitches dont like crybaby men who are scared of getting a little raping done?

Lets face facts, she decided she wanted to nob smurphy after spotting him momentarily at the roadside. Now, this sounds like a precious women of virtue to me, but whats to say the same thing didnt happen with tattoo mcwanderinghand?

You can play the naivety card if you like, but the chick has to be medically retarded if she thinks agreeing to let some fella massage her crotch isnt a little forward.

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