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by Dual » Fri Jan 23, 2015 7:52 am

Message her.

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by Moggy » Fri Jan 23, 2015 7:53 am

Long distance relationships are hard but what have you got to lose by keeping in touch with her?

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by False » Fri Jan 23, 2015 10:11 am

Message her, man. Just keep talking to her and keep her sweet. If it works then you'll arrange to meet at some point. Standard process.

Anyone who is ever in any doubt about messaging some chick should just throw caution to the wind and do it. You have nothing to lose.

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by False » Fri Jan 23, 2015 10:12 am

Also my bird left the country for good this morning. Gave me a call before she left which was nice, though too early to be waking me up. Gonna miss her for sure.

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by Poser » Fri Jan 23, 2015 12:32 pm

[iup=3660493]Falsey[/iup] wrote:Anyone who is ever in any doubt about messaging some chick should just throw caution to the wind and do it. You have nothing to lose.



This, a million times. I learnt this far too late in life. My basic technique since I was 26/7 was basically to tell girls I fancied them. I've been punching scarily above my weight ever since.

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by Eighthours » Fri Jan 23, 2015 1:10 pm

Definitely message her. :simper:

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by Fade » Sat Jan 24, 2015 4:52 pm

[iup=3660401]Neph[/iup] wrote:Wanted some advice guys:

Met this girl (best friend of my best friends GF) over new year spent 2 days with her, possibly best 2 days of my life we just connected completely, but she lives in Ireland our lives are at different stages. If she was in London there wouldn't be an issue.

Now i am the least confident person ever, I have no confidence in myself or around women but we just clicked so well over new year and I barely drank anything. It was bliss everything was just awesome.

The question is, we both left it as maybe we will meet again with better circumstances, i have her on FB and have avoided contacting her because of that reason but its not like she's in the US or Aus Ireland is pretty close but, do i message her and see if anything will occur or just bury it to the back of my mind and stop thinking about her?

As above i am useless with this stuff but any advice would be great.

Well would either of you be willing to move at some point in the future? If the answer is yes, go ahead and give it a go.

If the girl I liked had lived in Ireland I'd probably be married with 3 kids by now :lol:

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by False » Sat Jan 24, 2015 4:58 pm

Fade there was nothing stopping you making a wife out of her in Canada but you.

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by Floex » Sat Jan 24, 2015 5:01 pm

Maybe he didn't want to move to Canada?

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by False » Sat Jan 24, 2015 5:11 pm

You gotta risk it for the biscuit

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by Curls » Sun Jan 25, 2015 12:03 am

I would do anything for love but I WON'T DO THAT.

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by Rightey » Sun Jan 25, 2015 2:40 am

[iup=3661513]Falsey[/iup] wrote:Fade there was nothing stopping you making a wife out of her in Canada but you.


Exactly look at my girlfriend. :wub:

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by Parksey » Sun Jan 25, 2015 4:59 am

What was Fade's situation with that girl though? My memory about it isn't great, but had he not met her in person before going to Canada?

As I said, it is hard to have a log-distance relationship when you barely have had a relationship with the person with no distance between you.

That said, you should still obviously message her, as you would regret doing it more.

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by Pacman » Mon Jan 26, 2015 3:52 am

[iup=3658012]aayl1[/iup] wrote:My most recent gf thought I was secretly gay for about a year because I didn't resort to violence like all her other (Mexican) exes, and actually told her how I was feeling.

GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY























I wish :wub:

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by Gandalf » Mon Jan 26, 2015 11:42 am

Well, I can safely say my relationship is now completely over. Was up to until 02:30 Saturday morning arguing with the silly cow and had pretty much enough of this gooseberry fool now. Spent the entire day in a strop then went down town to watch a gig and ended up getting into bed with another woman! I think it's safe to say I didn't dwell on the former for too long! :lol:

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by Moggy » Mon Jan 26, 2015 11:44 am

[iup=3662542]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:ended up getting into bed with another woman!


LAD. :datass:

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by False » Mon Jan 26, 2015 11:58 am

gandLAD

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by Death's Head » Mon Jan 26, 2015 12:07 pm

[iup=3662542]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:Well, I can safely say my relationship is now completely over. Was up to until 02:30 Saturday morning arguing with the silly cow and had pretty much enough of this gooseberry fool now. Spent the entire day in a strop then went down town to watch a gig and ended up getting into bed with another woman! I think it's safe to say I didn't dwell on the former for too long! :lol:

What are you saying here, you are giving the long distance thing a try or not? Stop beating around the bush.

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by Eighthours » Mon Jan 26, 2015 12:24 pm

LADalf. :o

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by Parksey » Mon Jan 26, 2015 12:30 pm

As long as it wasn't a One Direction gig, as then pulling a member of the crowd becomes suddenly very suspect.


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