The - how are you feeling today? - thread.

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Mockmaster wrote:I hope Herbi plays his MoD job like he plays AYAW.

Coordinate all my info with you and then you die?

As I said a few pages back, this place seems like the thread to dump stuff off your chest, well here goes...

I feel like gooseberry fool. For three years I've pretty much been in love with a girl I couldn't have. I met her and I was instantly taken. She isn't even particularly 'hot' in the conventional sense, but I can honestly say that I wouldn't take another girl in the world over her. Me and my friend met her simultaneously and we both had feelings for her. My friend had the balls though and I didn't. I just didn't have enough confidence with myself, even though looking back I probably had an equal chance. I was heartbroken when they started going out, but I got over it by getting with a few other girls here and there. I was still very good friends with this girl throughout, even to the point where I could see my friend being jealous occasionally. I could cope with them going out, because I still got to be close friends with her.

Then they split up this summer and a little part of me celebrated, even though I count both of them as two of my best friends. How selfish. That little part of me told me this was my second chance. They had split up 'officially' because she was spending a year abroad as part of her university course, but I know better, I know she split up with him more because he was extremely needy the year before due to him being depressed. My friend has totally changed since though, regaining his normality and he is trying to win her back. I think it's working. I should be happy that two of my best friends may be becoming happy together again. I'm heartbroken again though. Why couldn't they have just stayed together? I'd got over them being together, but regaining my hope and then having it dashed is too much.

I'm aware I probably sound a little pathetic. What can I say? I'm just devastated, because I love her like I've loved no one else. I'm considering just telling her before they get the chance to get back together, just so I can know if I have a chance, but I risk ruining the friendship. I feel very guilty for potentially ruining the chances of my friend though, who doesn't deserve anything but happiness. He has genuinely been a brilliant friend to me, helping me whenever I've asked and whenever I haven't. I don't know what to do.

I drank too much in a short space of time last night and was roaming the bar in a santa hat/beard combo with sunglasses on :fp:

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I feel strawberry floating terrible. Toothache from hell. I'm pretty sure I have an abscess in the back molar root and the pain is driving me crazy. Painkillers aren't working for gooseberry fool. I'm going to the dentist today to probably just receive some anti-biotics. The infected area needs to be cleared before they can do any work to it. The pain really is unbelievable. I've come close to tears a few times with it. I haven't slept a wink for over 48 hours now.

Eh, I'm feeling okay at the moment really. Just missing ex, but I'm not feeling down at all...just kinda lonely, I guess?

I'll be fine once some of my mates are available for night drinking. Haven't gotten one in ages due to spending money on presents lately...

Im feeling tired - just finished a night shift but i'm happy. Very happy!

No sleep again. Woo. 5 cups of coffee. Noo. Fell asleep on the bus. Boo.

So yeah, I feel like gooseberry fool.

I have the mother of all colds. Slept badly. Woke up with my tongue stick to the roof of my mouth. Could feel better, really.

I had quite a nice session with the missus last night yet have woken up horny as hell and then the journey to work was torture as there were so many gorgeous women on the train. Thankfully I am at work with lots of ugly men so this may pass.

My ear feels like it's fullof fluid, but it isn't

Festive Exception wrote:My ear feels like it's fullof fluid, but it isn't

I felt like that Monday so I sympathise with you mate.

Phatman wrote:As I said a few pages back, this place seems like the thread to dump stuff off your chest, well here goes...

I feel like gooseberry fool. For three years I've pretty much been in love with a girl I couldn't have. I met her and I was instantly taken. She isn't even particularly 'hot' in the conventional sense, but I can honestly say that I wouldn't take another girl in the world over her. Me and my friend met her simultaneously and we both had feelings for her. My friend had the balls though and I didn't. I just didn't have enough confidence with myself, even though looking back I probably had an equal chance. I was heartbroken when they started going out, but I got over it by getting with a few other girls here and there. I was still very good friends with this girl throughout, even to the point where I could see my friend being jealous occasionally. I could cope with them going out, because I still got to be close friends with her.

Then they split up this summer and a little part of me celebrated, even though I count both of them as two of my best friends. How selfish. That little part of me told me this was my second chance. They had split up 'officially' because she was spending a year abroad as part of her university course, but I know better, I know she split up with him more because he was extremely needy the year before due to him being depressed. My friend has totally changed since though, regaining his normality and he is trying to win her back. I think it's working. I should be happy that two of my best friends may be becoming happy together again. I'm heartbroken again though. Why couldn't they have just stayed together? I'd got over them being together, but regaining my hope and then having it dashed is too much.

I'm aware I probably sound a little pathetic. What can I say? I'm just devastated, because I love her like I've loved no one else. I'm considering just telling her before they get the chance to get back together, just so I can know if I have a chance, but I risk ruining the friendship. I feel very guilty for potentially ruining the chances of my friend though, who doesn't deserve anything but happiness. He has genuinely been a brilliant friend to me, helping me whenever I've asked and whenever I haven't. I don't know what to do.

Well... you can grow over being in love with someone. From the situation you describe, I wouldn't set my hopes on getting together with the girl. But... in order to get over someone, it's important that you accept the situation as it is, and just let go. And I think that is going to be very difficult for you if you see the both of them on a regular basis.

If I were to give you advice, I'd say the best thing is try to get away from it all for a while. If you ever had any plans to go abroad for a year or something similar, now may be the time to do it.

Good luck with the whole situation!

I have the mother of all flus.

Must.Get.Better.

Seven Swans-A-Swimming wrote:Eh, I'm feeling okay at the moment really. Just missing ex, but I'm not feeling down at all...just kinda lonely, I guess?

I'll be fine once some of my mates are available for night drinking. Haven't gotten one in ages due to spending money on presents lately...

I'm exactly the same.

God damn mother strawberry floating vets.

So I take the really ill dog in on monday, they agree he's not well, they test a load of stuff then take a sample of blood to see what kind of disease he has got.

Come Tuesday we get a call from the vet saying "we think" he has got a form of lukemia or another type of cancer, but we need to send the blood back to the lab to test.... WHY DID THEY PHONE ME TO SAY HE MIGHT? couldn't they have just waited till they got the results then told me?

Cue today, I get a call at 9am, saying they haven't sent it off yet, but there is another blood test they can use the sample for that could be a better indicator in regards to results, but thats even more money, I agree, eventhough its not my decision to make, then I ask why they are ringing me up to tell me they haven't sent the blood off, couldn't they have offered this better test the other day? Now I have to wait upwards of a week, when my dog is clearly strawberry floating suffering, all we want to hear a vet say, is "he has cancer, it is too late for us to do anything." as soon as we hear that we will put him out of his suffering, but until then they keep strawberry floating stalling and trying to get more money off us.... strawberry floating banana splits

JingleJay wrote:God damn mother strawberry floating vets.

So I take the really ill dog in on monday, they agree he's not well, they test a load of stuff then take a sample of blood to see what kind of disease he has got.

Come Tuesday we get a call from the vet saying "we think" he has got a form of lukemia or another type of cancer, but we need to send the blood back to the lab to test.... WHY DID THEY PHONE ME TO SAY HE MIGHT? couldn't they have just waited till they got the results then told me?

Cue today, I get a call at 9am, saying they haven't sent it off yet, but there is another blood test they can use the sample for that could be a better indicator in regards to results, but thats even more money, I agree, eventhough its not my decision to make, then I ask why they are ringing me up to tell me they haven't sent the blood off, couldn't they have offered this better test the other day? Now I have to wait upwards of a week, when my dog is clearly strawberry floating suffering, all we want to hear a vet say, is "he has cancer, it is too late for us to do anything." as soon as we hear that we will put him out of his suffering, but until then they keep strawberry floating stalling and trying to get more money off us.... strawberry floating banana splits

Really sorry to hear that. I remember when my dog went ill, the vets were very hesistant. In years gone by they would always let you know straight away. These days they try and fleece money from you. Maybe im being cynical, perhaps mediceine has advanced and they have more options to try. I understand how painful it is to see a pet suffering. Fingers crossed he'll be ok and pull through. How old is he?

Honestly we don't know how old he is, he was origanally a rescue dog which my nan got, then she died, then gave to my uncle, who then died and we took him. I would have to say he is over 10 though.

In all fairness they wouldn't tell me he might have cancer if they weren't at least 80% sure, he is not well enough to go through any kind of surgury or even chemotheropy, we are just really waiting for the diagnosis so we can end his misery.

JingleJay wrote:Honestly we don't know how old he is, he was origanally a rescue dog which my nan got, then she died, then gave to my uncle, who then died and we took him. I would have to say he is over 10 though.

Sounds like a cursed dog to me?

Rudalf wrote:
JingleJay wrote:Honestly we don't know how old he is, he was origanally a rescue dog which my nan got, then she died, then gave to my uncle, who then died and we took him. I would have to say he is over 10 though.

Sounds like a cursed dog to me?

he is, our family is pretty cursed as well, we have so many deaths around the 23rd-27th december its unbelievable.

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