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Jenuall wrote:

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:I kind of get where you are coming from there Moggy, doing something like this when you actually know or are close with the people is obviously not good. But at the same time even if you don't know the partner you are still partaking in an act that you know is potentially going to cause pain to them. Should their anonymity really absolve you of any moral judgement or wrongdoing?

Obviously it goes without saying that it is the cheater who is really in the wrong here and if it causes problems at home then they need to shoulder the blame for that, but it still seems that anyone who "enables" that situation shouldn't be 100% guilt free!

Im married and if my wife cheated I’d obviously be furious.

But I wouldn’t blame some random bloke she slept with on a night out. He doesn’t know me, why would he care? I would blame a family member or a friend (as well as her) though!

I think it's reasonable to assume that if presented with the person who their spouse cheated on them with most people would be at least a little bit "ticked off" with that individual. Not as angry as they were at their own spouse or partner perhaps, but still not exactly happy.

Only being an "accomplice" to the crime, so to speak, doesn't make you innocent of all guilt for that crime!

There is no “crime”. Bloke is on a night out and shags somebody he meets in a nightclub. There is no onus on him to check her marital status.

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:I kind of get where you are coming from there Moggy, doing something like this when you actually know or are close with the people is obviously not good. But at the same time even if you don't know the partner you are still partaking in an act that you know is potentially going to cause pain to them. Should their anonymity really absolve you of any moral judgement or wrongdoing?

Obviously it goes without saying that it is the cheater who is really in the wrong here and if it causes problems at home then they need to shoulder the blame for that, but it still seems that anyone who "enables" that situation shouldn't be 100% guilt free!

Im married and if my wife cheated I’d obviously be furious.

But I wouldn’t blame some random bloke she slept with on a night out. He doesn’t know me, why would he care? I would blame a family member or a friend (as well as her) though!

I think it's reasonable to assume that if presented with the person who their spouse cheated on them with most people would be at least a little bit "ticked off" with that individual. Not as angry as they were at their own spouse or partner perhaps, but still not exactly happy.

Only being an "accomplice" to the crime, so to speak, doesn't make you innocent of all guilt for that crime!

There is no “crime”.

Of course, hence the "so to speak".

But there is an act of wrongdoing, one which many would say shows a lack of morals on both parties, and one which can have severe negative consequences on the person they are doing it with as well as potentially multiple third parties.

If the cheating spouse is actively hiding the fact that they are in a relationship then fair enough I'd wager most would agree that bloke has done no wrong in that case. But if the bloke in this situation is aware that the person he is about to stick his dick into is married or in a relationship, or suspects this is the case and does strawberry float all to confirm it, then I think they are absolutely due a portion of the blame and guilt for the act if they go through with it.

Jenuall wrote:

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:I kind of get where you are coming from there Moggy, doing something like this when you actually know or are close with the people is obviously not good. But at the same time even if you don't know the partner you are still partaking in an act that you know is potentially going to cause pain to them. Should their anonymity really absolve you of any moral judgement or wrongdoing?

Obviously it goes without saying that it is the cheater who is really in the wrong here and if it causes problems at home then they need to shoulder the blame for that, but it still seems that anyone who "enables" that situation shouldn't be 100% guilt free!

Im married and if my wife cheated I’d obviously be furious.

But I wouldn’t blame some random bloke she slept with on a night out. He doesn’t know me, why would he care? I would blame a family member or a friend (as well as her) though!

I think it's reasonable to assume that if presented with the person who their spouse cheated on them with most people would be at least a little bit "ticked off" with that individual. Not as angry as they were at their own spouse or partner perhaps, but still not exactly happy.

Only being an "accomplice" to the crime, so to speak, doesn't make you innocent of all guilt for that crime!

There is no “crime”.

Of course, hence the "so to speak".

But there is an act of wrongdoing, one which many would say shows a lack of morals on both parties, and one which can have severe negative consequences on the person they are doing it with as well as potentially multiple third parties.

If the cheating spouse is actively hiding the fact that they are in a relationship then fair enough I'd wager most would agree that bloke has done no wrong in that case. But if the bloke in this situation is aware that the person he is about to stick his dick into is married or in a relationship, or suspects this is the case and does strawberry float all to confirm it, then I think they are absolutely due a portion of the blame and guilt for the act if they go through with it.

I don’t think we are going to agree here.

I would only blame the person if they knew/were friends with/were a relative of the person who was getting cheated on. Otherwise I don’t think there is any blame or guilt there.

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:

Moggy wrote:

Jenuall wrote:I kind of get where you are coming from there Moggy, doing something like this when you actually know or are close with the people is obviously not good. But at the same time even if you don't know the partner you are still partaking in an act that you know is potentially going to cause pain to them. Should their anonymity really absolve you of any moral judgement or wrongdoing?

Obviously it goes without saying that it is the cheater who is really in the wrong here and if it causes problems at home then they need to shoulder the blame for that, but it still seems that anyone who "enables" that situation shouldn't be 100% guilt free!

Im married and if my wife cheated I’d obviously be furious.

But I wouldn’t blame some random bloke she slept with on a night out. He doesn’t know me, why would he care? I would blame a family member or a friend (as well as her) though!

I think it's reasonable to assume that if presented with the person who their spouse cheated on them with most people would be at least a little bit "ticked off" with that individual. Not as angry as they were at their own spouse or partner perhaps, but still not exactly happy.

Only being an "accomplice" to the crime, so to speak, doesn't make you innocent of all guilt for that crime!

There is no “crime”.

Of course, hence the "so to speak".

But there is an act of wrongdoing, one which many would say shows a lack of morals on both parties, and one which can have severe negative consequences on the person they are doing it with as well as potentially multiple third parties.

If the cheating spouse is actively hiding the fact that they are in a relationship then fair enough I'd wager most would agree that bloke has done no wrong in that case. But if the bloke in this situation is aware that the person he is about to stick his dick into is married or in a relationship, or suspects this is the case and does strawberry float all to confirm it, then I think they are absolutely due a portion of the blame and guilt for the act if they go through with it.

I don’t think we are going to agree here.

I would only blame the person if they knew/were friends with/were a relative of the person who was getting cheated on. Otherwise I don’t think there is any blame or guilt there.

I suspect you are right, we shall agree to disagree!

I do find it odd to not see any wrong in someone sleeping with an anonymous married person. My expectation would be that most people would see this as at least a bit dodgy, similarly I would imaging that most people who have been "bloke" in this scenario probably feel at least a degree of guilt weighing on their conscience after the fact. But again, perhaps I'm just out of touch?

Guilt?

Ha!

wait so you lot dont even like threesomes either?

False wrote:wait so you lot dont even like threesomes either?

Only if it's with both parties of a relationship - then everyone is involved and nobody need feel guilty!

False wrote:wait so you lot dont even like threesomes either?

If by “you lot” you mean “Ad7 is scared of seeing a penis” then yeah.

I nearly had a threesome once.

The missus and this other chick was drunk as hell.
I went to the bathroom to throw up with a nervous excitement... It was finally going to happen.

I go back to the living room. They're kissing. Oh yes. Game on.
Heart is beating out my chest. This is amazing.
Instant boner.

Missus sees me stood there with a rager and gets cold feet and runs away. Maybe she thought I left them to it lol. ( :'( )

I couldn't sleep a single wink that night.
The following day was spent watching threesome porn with a tear in my eye. Not of laughter. But missed opportunity.

Also, I've got a strawberry floating sweet exploit for co-op self checkout tills.
I don't want to mention it here incase it gets back to them and they fix it.

But basically..
Rib eye steak for 20p?
Beer for pence per can without needing to be age verified?!
Yes bruv.

strawberry float it. They make enough off us anyway. They won't notice the damage.

Who turns down a threesome with Lewis?

His missus, by the sounds of it. Awkward.

I was going to knob her mate in the morning as revenge, but decided I wouldn't be able to live with the guilt.

Plus she was a bit minging once I'd sobered.
But mostly the guilt.

Imagine turning down a go on Lewis

Hexx wrote:Imagine turning down a go on Lewis

r u John Lennon?

Hexx wrote:Imagine turning down a go on Lewis

Given the sexless state of my relationship recently, it won't be long before I'm giving you a call

So hows about them petty crimes huh.

LewisD more worried about the Co-op finding his posts here than his missus

Lewis how was the sandwich?

If you hadn’t had that sandwich, Lewis - you could have been sandwiched between two ladies. With your hot fish yoghurt as the dressing.

You fool!