Your Last Break Up!!

Octoroc wrote:

Wedgie wrote:Women, are evil.

The one I married isn't.

Turbulent times Wedgie. I feel for you man, I really do. For the time being I'd just play it cool and bite my lip if I were you.

Wait until the dust settles and then see how the land lies.

Refusing to buy more clothes/food to make her comfortable at the hospital unless she gives me the money first. I've told her that I will be supporting my daughter but not her.

TBH that sounds a bit petty mate. I understand you're upset, but the well-being of both mother and child are pretty closely linked at the moment. You're going to have to extend the hand of friendship at some point because hopefully you're all going to be seeing an awful lot of each other in the coming years.

This sounds really horrible and I'm sorry to ask it, but are you certain you're the father?

Yes, I am the father.

A lot of people close to me has noticed that my ex has been acting cold towards me all the time in the relationship, and I'm blind to this. Even my mum said the same.

And the mother is doing well. Very well. She can even walk around, drive the car and all that gooseberry fool. There is no stopping her from driving to the bank machine and withdraw the money for herself. In fact, we got paided on the same day, and that's a day before she gives birth. So even since she haven't spend a penny.

She's only spending her time at the hospital to see our daughter, sometimes from 7am to 11pm. Sometimes she'll say that she'll be off soon, quickly than I can say I would like to come with you, she's out of the door.

So two hours on the train to the hospital, I arrive and she's all smiles, giving me tasks to do for her like getting food and drinks. I bit my lips so far I can, but I feel pushed out of my daughter's life already.

I don't dare risk anger her so she can block access. But a man can only pushed too far and I snapped. Luckily I got the common sense to walk outside before I snapped. Cue a lot of people looking at a raving loony screaming "Bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch!" It doesn't help that I'm standing outside the mental health department. FML.

Red wrote:

Wedgie wrote:Excuse me? What if your new man wants children. "Too bad."

What's wrong with that?

She dismissed that I don't want anymore children as a foolish thing with anyone else, when it's okay for her to say the same thing.

True she went through hell, but she fails to acknowledge that I'm in the pretty much same boat emotional-wise.

OnlyShallow wrote:Jeez what a bunch of *******.

Man up the lot of you.

You don't hear real men, like Denster, whining on and on like a bitch do you?

Ah, wait....

Carry on.

Utter banana split! When was the last time i moaned. I sorted my gooseberry fool out - thanks very much.

Ah that's fair enough, I thought you meant something different.

Wedgie - you just gotta bite your tongue and be nice so that you can have a relationship with your daughter. She does sound like a prize bitch though.

And first second - no more contact with that woman.

Denster wrote:Wedgie - you just gotta bite your tongue and be nice so that you can have a relationship with your daughter. She does sound like a prize ***** though.

And first second - no more contact with that woman.

Exactly what I shall be doing, I had planned on going to see her on Monday but she doesnt want that now, said we get on well as friends but it's upto me if I want that or not...

Well guess what, I don't, she can bugger off, she's getting no more of my time..

This is the way to go.

O/

FirstSecond wrote:

Denster wrote:Wedgie - you just gotta bite your tongue and be nice so that you can have a relationship with your daughter. She does sound like a prize ***** though.

And first second - no more contact with that woman.

Exactly what I shall be doing, I had planned on going to see her on Monday but she doesnt want that now, said we get on well as friends but it's upto me if I want that or not...

Well guess what, I don't, she can bugger off, she's getting no more of my time..

I had an ex who was stringing me along quite the thing. Phone calls at 3 in the morning "oh I miss you, come over" etc.
One day after she had told me we were meant to be together and she loved me etc she strawberry floated me over royally by totally blanking me (ok, she was with her new BF at the time and it would have been hard for her to explain to him that I had been round at hers the night before for a bj, but still). I called her up the next day and left the following message.

"Don't you ever get in contact with me again. Ever."

Job done. No more messed up head.