Your Last Break Up!!

MCN wrote:

Mr Yoshi wrote:Yeah, apparently she's ill and is at the end of the semester, with a million assessment deadlines looming. So, understandable. But what I can't work out is why she wouldn't text me back, even if it's just to say she can't talk to me right now.

I can't believe she would find it hurtful anymore, or painful to think about. She broke it off. But then again, if she was completely over it, why wouldn't she just text back?

Maybe it's a little selfish, but I feel that with everything I've gone through in the last few months, I can't imagine her having anywhere near as harder time as I've had. And as easy as it is to say, "yeah, women are bitches", I knew this person.

I knew she was sincere when she said she wanted to be friends. She has a few unresolved and quite serious personal issues, so when I read her status update I get concerned. Which again, is unfair of her to text me back, because now I worry. Anyway, I know. It's not my job to care anymore, but it's hard.

Mate, she's under a lot of pressure at the moment. And even if she did break it off, maybe she is still hurting because she still cares about you. Also, look at it this way, she'll ill, has a ton of deadlines, unresolved and serious personal issues, and you can't imagine she's had a worse time than you? Unless you've been diagnosed with 17 terminal illnesses at the same time, you're being very selfish in saying that.

Give her some breathing space. You've obviously not picked the best time to get back in touch, as she has a lot on her plate. Wait until the semester is over, at least.

FirstSecond wrote:She's still sending me text messages, asking if I'm ok, that she hates us not talking, Matt please talk to me :,( etc, Can't begin to tell you how tempted I am to reply, but in doing so would just prolong the pain and stop me moving on.

FirstSecond wrote:Starting to feel ever so slightly better, that was until she just this very minute sent me another text saying "This is actually driving me insane, please just text back just to let me know you're ok, please, I'm begging you" and now I feel abit guilty for some reason...

FirstSecond wrote:She does actually sound quite worried though, but If i text back saying I'm ok, then she won't even feel bad for what she's done, and I'll still feel like rubbish.

Need to be strong.

FirstSecond wrote:She does actually sound quite worried though, but If i text back saying I'm ok, then she won't even feel bad for what she's done, and I'll still feel like rubbish.

Need to be strong.

FirstSecond wrote:All her details are now deleted from my phone so I can't reply, guess she's used to getting what she wants with her current boyfriend, this should hopefully teach her a valuable lesson...

Mr Yoshi wrote:FirstSecond, I think you may in fact be my ex-girlfriend. Never did get a reply from her, and it's bloody torture you swine.

FirstSecond wrote:

Mr Yoshi wrote:FirstSecond, I think you may in fact be my ex-girlfriend. Never did get a reply from her, and it's bloody torture you swine.

I need time and space to get over you though Yoshi you broke my heart, I'm not ready to forgive you yet...

Got another text from her at a silly hour during the night saying...

I can't sleep, still worryin about you. Hope you're ok. Please just let me know you are Matt cause I'll keep tryin to find out... (thats how she spelt it, not me) sounds like she really does want me to forgive her or something, must resist...

FirstSecond wrote:

Mr Yoshi wrote:FirstSecond, I think you may in fact be my ex-girlfriend. Never did get a reply from her, and it's bloody torture you swine.

I need time and space to get over you though Yoshi you broke my heart, I'm not ready to forgive you yet...

Got another text from her at a silly hour during the night saying...

I can't sleep, still worryin about you. Hope you're ok. Please just let me know you are Matt cause I'll keep tryin to find out... (thats how she spelt it, not me) sounds like she really does want me to forgive her or something, must resist...