Mr Yoshi wrote:
glowy man, was in a very, very similar situation a while ago.
It's damn hard at first, and it sucks, but time really is a healer. If she's all over the place, making jokes on facebook, and fliritng with ex's then she's not angry at you, or hating on you, she's dealing with it just as badly but in a completely different way. I cried for the first few weeks, religiously so, and this looming depression was with me for quite a few months afterwards even when life was probably better than it had ever been before. But, you do get over it. I still get sad now, and pine a little, but it's all part and parcel of going through life.
Next time, it won't hurt nearly as much. You'll be wiser, you'll probably know how to read people better, and maybe have a little fun messing around with girls in a couple of months time. Actually, make that defintely. You will think about her a lot, but it does get a lot lot easier.
Deleting her from facebook was a fantastic move though, just try to stop double thinking every move you make and how it might affect her, or what she may be thinking at particular times; you'll never know and you'll just turn into a paranoid android.
Splendid, thanks for the repsonse mate. Im off work for 10 days now to hopefull y'know clear my head, because I havent been focused at work and has been affecting how I do my job.
Ive been going out loads and it doesn help and take your mind off things..its jst when you're at home that it starts to creep in. I havent cried since being at my aunites wedding last week so Im doing well. and she is coming to pick up the rest of her stuff today...which Ibve piled neatly in the corner, and is everything that is remotley connected to her.As for Red,
I wasnt a sub standard boyfirend, she obviously has attention span issues and gets bored rather quick. Getting angry at nothing and stupid things doesnt make me sub standard, it makes he childish.