No we're not just pen pals. once we both have our lives sorted one of us will be making the jump. Could be 2 years. Could be 5. That's how much we like each other. I've told her to leave me a few times because I'm a bit of a mess and she wont. She's pretty amazing. probably not the kind of girl you guys would go for, but meh.
No. He went over uninvited. Assuming she was there. That's stalkerish. Probably got her address off of the internet. He only knows her from work.
I'd post a hipster image, but I'm on my phone.
Fade, If be inclined to say you're taking yourself too seriously. Because you can't be with her, you're over-compensating and wanting to do something, when you wouldn't really be able to do anything even if you were there. Just leave it, it's probably nothing, and this kind of worrying only makes things worse in a long-distance relationship.
Destroying Japan from the inside like an alcoholic Nagasaki.