Let's be honest: Good-looking women in the 21st century have all the power in the world. That's very attractive women rule men. Sex is available on demand. And, money gushes from male wallets. Without lifting a finger, very attractive women enjoy lives that most people can only dream about.
For men, the lure of dating very attractive women is obvious. Hotties are arm candy. They boost self-esteem. They even improve a guy's sex life by making him more in-demand.
Since hotties are what most guys look for, these women are constantly bombarded with male attention. They can afford to be very selective about the men they date, which usually lands them some dude with money first and good looks second.
So, what if you don't have extremely good looks or lots of cash? Believe it or not, you still have a shot -- if you're willing to make a couple of changes in your dating strategy.
1. Treat her like she's nothing special - Talk to her like you would any other person. Don't act awestruck by her looks. Don't gush out compliments. And, never stare at her with lust. Dating very attractive women requires you to almost seem indifferent.
2. Don't hit on her - This is what she expects, so just ignore her. This works especially well if you run into very attractive women on a routine basis at work, a coffee shop or a health club. If you don't give her any attention - while openly paying attention to other women - she won't be able to stand it because you'll be the only guy within a hundred miles who isn't drooling over her. With luck, she'll be intrigued.
3. Tease her - Very attractive women can't stand fear and insecurity, so be light, fun and entertaining.
4. Talk about her interests - Show interest in her mind because most guys who approach her do not.
5. Don't compliment her - Don't put her on a pedestal, where she usually sits with other men. If you do give her a small compliment, follow up with something that knocks her down a bit. For example, you can tell her she's wearing a nice dress, but follow up with a comment that your sister has the same one.
6. Tell her she's not up to your standards - Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards. If you really want to throw her for a loop, tell her that you think you should be just friends.
7. Wait to call her - If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call - and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.
8. Don't push for sex - She knows she's got the goods, so when you're out with her, she expects you to be a horndog. Make her wait and it will drive her crazy.
9. Run hot and cold - It's time to be passive aggressive. Be extremely friendly for a while, and follow it up with a period of aloofness. Or date her a couple of times, then drop her cold. She'll be stunned.
10. Keep her guessing - Don't let your guard down and go wimpy on her. The moment she thinks she's in control of you, it's all over.
While this stuff is not going to work every time, it's really the only hope regular guys have when out trying to bag a babe. Trying to score a date with very attractive women is definitely a numbers game, but all it takes is one...
And i was wondering, have you ever got a girl, or guy, that you thought was to hot for you, to ever even have a chance with?