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by 1cmanny1 » Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:40 am

Let's be honest: Good-looking women in the 21st century have all the power in the world. That's very attractive women rule men. Sex is available on demand. And, money gushes from male wallets. Without lifting a finger, very attractive women enjoy lives that most people can only dream about.

For men, the lure of dating very attractive women is obvious. Hotties are arm candy. They boost self-esteem. They even improve a guy's sex life by making him more in-demand.

Since hotties are what most guys look for, these women are constantly bombarded with male attention. They can afford to be very selective about the men they date, which usually lands them some dude with money first and good looks second.

So, what if you don't have extremely good looks or lots of cash? Believe it or not, you still have a shot -- if you're willing to make a couple of changes in your dating strategy.

1. Treat her like she's nothing special - Talk to her like you would any other person. Don't act awestruck by her looks. Don't gush out compliments. And, never stare at her with lust. Dating very attractive women requires you to almost seem indifferent.

2. Don't hit on her - This is what she expects, so just ignore her. This works especially well if you run into very attractive women on a routine basis at work, a coffee shop or a health club. If you don't give her any attention - while openly paying attention to other women - she won't be able to stand it because you'll be the only guy within a hundred miles who isn't drooling over her. With luck, she'll be intrigued.

3. Tease her - Very attractive women can't stand fear and insecurity, so be light, fun and entertaining.

4. Talk about her interests - Show interest in her mind because most guys who approach her do not.

5. Don't compliment her - Don't put her on a pedestal, where she usually sits with other men. If you do give her a small compliment, follow up with something that knocks her down a bit. For example, you can tell her she's wearing a nice dress, but follow up with a comment that your sister has the same one.

6. Tell her she's not up to your standards - Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards. If you really want to throw her for a loop, tell her that you think you should be just friends.

7. Wait to call her - If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call - and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.

8. Don't push for sex - She knows she's got the goods, so when you're out with her, she expects you to be a horndog. Make her wait and it will drive her crazy.

9. Run hot and cold - It's time to be passive aggressive. Be extremely friendly for a while, and follow it up with a period of aloofness. Or date her a couple of times, then drop her cold. She'll be stunned.

10. Keep her guessing - Don't let your guard down and go wimpy on her. The moment she thinks she's in control of you, it's all over.

While this stuff is not going to work every time, it's really the only hope regular guys have when out trying to bag a babe. Trying to score a date with very attractive women is definitely a numbers game, but all it takes is one...


And i was wondering, have you ever got a girl, or guy, that you thought was to hot for you, to ever even have a chance with?

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PostRe: 1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls
by emilythestrange » Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:45 am

Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?

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by Commander Jameson » Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:47 am

:lol:

That should be called 'How to stay as a single virgin'.

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by Drunken_Master » Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:52 am

1. Treat her like she's nothing special - Talk to her like you would any other person. Don't act awestruck by her looks. Don't gush out compliments. And, never stare at her with lust. Dating very attractive women requires you to almost seem indifferent.

2. Don't hit on her - This is what she expects, so just ignore her. This works especially well if you run into very attractive women on a routine basis at work, a coffee shop or a health club. If you don't give her any attention - while openly paying attention to other women - she won't be able to stand it because you'll be the only guy within a hundred miles who isn't drooling over her. With luck, she'll be intrigued.

3. Tease her - Very attractive women can't stand fear and insecurity, so be light, fun and entertaining.

4. Talk about her interests - Show interest in her mind because most guys who approach her do not.

5. Don't compliment her - Don't put her on a pedestal, where she usually sits with other men. If you do give her a small compliment, follow up with something that knocks her down a bit. For example, you can tell her she's wearing a nice dress, but follow up with a comment that your sister has the same one.

6. Tell her she's not up to your standards - Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards. If you really want to throw her for a loop, tell her that you think you should be just friends.

7. Wait to call her - If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call - and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.

8. Don't push for sex - She knows she's got the goods, so when you're out with her, she expects you to be a horndog. Make her wait and it will drive her crazy.

9. Run hot and cold - It's time to be passive aggressive. Be extremely friendly for a while, and follow it up with a period of aloofness. Or date her a couple of times, then drop her cold. She'll be stunned.

10. Keep her guessing - Don't let your guard down and go wimpy on her. The moment she thinks she's in control of you, it's all over.


I do all of these things. I've been called a cold bastard more times than I care to remember. I still do it now, the wife just puts up with it. :lol:

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PostRe: 1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls
by jamcc » Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:58 am

emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


Apart from those two points, I think it's good advice. It's about balance - complimenting is good, but overcomplimenting is cringeworthy. Oh and don't leave her waiting forever or she'll get bored and strawberry float off.

That's what I've learned through experience and common-sense.

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by Steve » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:02 am

emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.

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by 1cmanny1 » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:05 am

Steve wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.



But everyone does that, you want to be different, pretend you dont really want her, you want her to try and come on to you!

If shes used to getting people at a snap of the fingers, it should be a dent to her self esteem if she cant get you, so she SHOULD try really hard to get you!

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by Steve » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:09 am

1cmanny1 wrote:
Steve wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.



But everyone does that, you want to be different, pretend you dont really want her, you want her to try and come on to you!

If shes used to getting people at a snap of the fingers, it should be a dent to her self esteem if she cant get you, so she SHOULD try really hard to get you!


The only girl you'll get if you aren't nice to her is some old dog no one else wants. Or a mentalist.

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by emilythestrange » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:10 am

1cmanny1 wrote:
Steve wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.



But everyone does that, you want to be different, pretend you dont really want her, you want her to try and come on to you!

If shes used to getting people at a snap of the fingers, it should be a dent to her self esteem if she cant get you, so she SHOULD try really hard to get you!


If you approached a 'really hot girl' and told her that she isn't up to your standards, she'll probably just slap you.

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by 1cmanny1 » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:14 am

emilythestrange wrote:
1cmanny1 wrote:
Steve wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.



But everyone does that, you want to be different, pretend you dont really want her, you want her to try and come on to you!

If shes used to getting people at a snap of the fingers, it should be a dent to her self esteem if she cant get you, so she SHOULD try really hard to get you!


If you approached a 'really hot girl' and told her that she isn't up to your standards, she'll probably just slap you.


:lol:

I dont mean go over and say, "your to fat, and not up to my standards"

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by emilythestrange » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:16 am

1cmanny1 wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:
1cmanny1 wrote:
Steve wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.



But everyone does that, you want to be different, pretend you dont really want her, you want her to try and come on to you!

If shes used to getting people at a snap of the fingers, it should be a dent to her self esteem if she cant get you, so she SHOULD try really hard to get you!


If you approached a 'really hot girl' and told her that she isn't up to your standards, she'll probably just slap you.


:lol:

I dont mean go over and say, "your to fat, and not up to my standards"


No-one said anything about fat, if you simply told someone that they aren't up to your 'standards' its a pretty offensive thing to say.

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PostRe: 1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls
by 1cmanny1 » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:23 am

emilythestrange wrote:
1cmanny1 wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:
1cmanny1 wrote:
Steve wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.



But everyone does that, you want to be different, pretend you dont really want her, you want her to try and come on to you!

If shes used to getting people at a snap of the fingers, it should be a dent to her self esteem if she cant get you, so she SHOULD try really hard to get you!


If you approached a 'really hot girl' and told her that she isn't up to your standards, she'll probably just slap you.


:lol:

I dont mean go over and say, "your to fat, and not up to my standards"


No-one said anything about fat, if you simply told someone that they aren't up to your 'standards' its a pretty offensive thing to say.


Also, thats not the first step, you need to get her interested first, you are not suppose to go over to her and say "hey baby, you aren't up to my 'standards' "

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PostRe: 1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls
by jamcc » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:24 am

1cmanny1 wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:
1cmanny1 wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:
1cmanny1 wrote:
Steve wrote:
emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


This.



But everyone does that, you want to be different, pretend you dont really want her, you want her to try and come on to you!

If shes used to getting people at a snap of the fingers, it should be a dent to her self esteem if she cant get you, so she SHOULD try really hard to get you!


If you approached a 'really hot girl' and told her that she isn't up to your standards, she'll probably just slap you.


:lol:

I dont mean go over and say, "your to fat, and not up to my standards"


No-one said anything about fat, if you simply told someone that they aren't up to your 'standards' its a pretty offensive thing to say.


Also, thats not the first step, you need to get her interested first, you are not suppose to go over to her and say "hey baby, you aren't up to my 'standards' "


This. And don't say you just want to be mates or she'll probably believe you!

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PostRe: 1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls
by Denster » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:29 am

This is from 'The Game' by Neil Strauss isn't it!

Great book. Very amusing. Does work if used well too. I would advise any singletons on here to have a look at it. Just don't ask Manny to spoon feed you the basics. That is a recipe for disaster! He is not known for his subtle grasp of the minutiae of a topic.

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by Prototype » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:31 am

emilythestrange wrote:Don't compliment her?

Tell her she's not up to your standards?

Sounds like very weird advice to me. :?


Yeah, but you've never dated a girl.

Or have you?

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by Denster » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:35 am

Its not about making a girl feel stupid or unattractive. Its specifically about pulling very good looking women. It basically boils down to being confident enough to play hard to get. Some of the ideas in the book work like a charm quite frankly. It is well worth investigating. Even if you never try them out - its an interesting read.

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by HrC » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:35 am

To be honest... I dont think I've done any of those things, yet have still remained fairly successful in the long run.

Emily is right though... you just dont mention the F.A.T. word whether in/out or shaking it all about with a lady.

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by SC » Mon Oct 20, 2008 10:48 am

I agree with Denster on this; it's a basic summary of some of Strauss' techniques from his book that were discussed in a thread a while back. And yeah, they do work when used well - a lot better than any other pick-up routine I've ever known anyone use.

These tips are only some of many though, which are all designed to compliment each other. Women are just as shallow as men when it comes to sex/relationships, but they just enjoy putting on a front to make themselves feel better.

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PostRe: 1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls
by Abs » Mon Oct 20, 2008 11:10 am

Most of that is pretty true, what it all boils down to really is not allowing yourself to get pussywhipped, be a strawberry floating man about things and do whatever you wanna do, just try and bit a bit more charming about it.

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PostRe: 1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls
by Denster » Mon Oct 20, 2008 11:18 am

Abs wrote:Most of that is pretty true, what it all boils down to really is not allowing yourself to get pussywhipped, be a strawberry floating man about things and do whatever you wanna do, just try and bit a bit more charming about it.


THIS.

Abs probably had sex mere moments before typing this. strawberry floating solid bloke!


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