1cmanny1s friendly advice how to get hot girls

IRON NAN wrote:

emilythestrange wrote:There is no nice way to tell someone that they aren't up to your 'standards', it's ******* ridiculous, it's a blatant insult.

In my experience most girls don't even bother trying to be nice about it, I've had some really vicious e-mails from the times I was bored and replying to gumtree ads.

I thought Gumtree was for buying 2nd hand washing machines off?

PsychoPriest wrote:I've actually been rated 7/10 three times this week by mates

Is that an Edge 7?

El Diablo Rojo 52 wrote:

PsychoPriest wrote:I've actually been rated 7/10 three times this week by mates

Is that an Edge 7?

I strawberry floating knew that would be the response.

1cmanny1, you've done it again.

Though i have recently realised your name sounds like 'semeny'. (years after everyone else probably)

PsychoPriest wrote:

El Diablo Rojo 52 wrote:

PsychoPriest wrote:I've actually been rated 7/10 three times this week by mates

Is that an Edge 7?

I strawberry floating knew that would be the response.

Happy to oblige.

Here's a good strawberry floating idea!

Be yourself.

Then maybe you'll find someone that actually likes you for who you are and not some tard who follows instructions on the internet.

JNR wrote:But you're a girl, what you think you do isn't what you actually do. Like when we ask if you're pissed off, and you say no, and you might mean it, truthfully mean it, but you actually are pissed off.

Fatal Exception wrote:That's how you want to be treated 'in theory'. The truth is, if guys are just plain nice to you girls you think that we're creepy, or relegate us to the friend zone.

Will people please stop telling me how I act, how I behave, what I like and dislike?

You have never met me. I am a total stranger. You do not know me, stop trying to claim you do. You do not have all girls sorted and compiled into a list of handy hints, because believe it or not all girls are different. I would never claim to know how either of you want to be treated, or how you act as a person, because I do not know you, so stop trying to generalise about me.

How would you like it if I said; "But you're a man, that means you all behave in the same ridiculous way."

emilythestrange wrote:

JNR wrote:But you're a girl, what you think you do isn't what you actually do. Like when we ask if you're pissed off, and you say no, and you might mean it, truthfully mean it, but you actually are pissed off.

Fatal Exception wrote:That's how you want to be treated 'in theory'. The truth is, if guys are just plain nice to you girls you think that we're creepy, or relegate us to the friend zone.

Will people please stop telling me how I act, how I behave, what I like and dislike?

You have never met me. I am a total stranger. You do not know me, stop trying to claim you do. You do not have all girls sorted and compiled into a list of handy hints, because believe it or not all girls are different. I would never claim to know how either of you want to be treated, or how you act as a person, because I do not know you, so stop trying to generalise about me.

How would you like it if I said; "But you're a man, that means you all behave in the same ridiculous way."

On here we mainly do Em to be fair!

The book is not about meeting your soulmate or dream woman. Its about tips about picking up women. thats what it is, that's all it is.
I have only ever once got off with a complete stranger!
I have always got to know someone first.

1cmanny1 wrote:

Let's be honest: Good-looking women in the 21st century have all the power in the world. That's very attractive women rule men. Sex is available on demand. And, money gushes from male wallets. Without lifting a finger, very attractive women enjoy lives that most people can only dream about.

For men, the lure of dating very attractive women is obvious. Hotties are arm candy. They boost self-esteem. They even improve a guy's sex life by making him more in-demand.

This is why I don't go for "hotties". nerdy women > "hotties". Nerds are more interesting and (imho) a LOT more attractive. My gf is nerdy, and contrary to advice to "hide halo action figures", has set aside the top of one of our bookcases for assorted game/film models. Ultimately, if a woman can't accept all aspects of your life then it's just not going to work. A friend of mine's now ex-gf threw out a shedload of his wargaming models and stuff. They stayed together for a while after that, I would have pressed criminal charges/killed her myself.

I read something like this several years ago when I was in a major slump before i met my gf, and while it all "made sense", i was still a social misanthrope underneath. It's all well and good reading it and going "yeah! let's do this!" however if you still fold in social situations its not much good.

All this advice to "be yourself" is also an interesting one, which is far easier to dispense from above than to accept and crucially understand from below. Ultimately it comes down to being clean and nice.

emilythestrange wrote:

JNR wrote:But you're a girl, what you think you do isn't what you actually do. Like when we ask if you're pissed off, and you say no, and you might mean it, truthfully mean it, but you actually are pissed off.

Fatal Exception wrote:That's how you want to be treated 'in theory'. The truth is, if guys are just plain nice to you girls you think that we're creepy, or relegate us to the friend zone.

Will people please stop telling me how I act, how I behave, what I like and dislike?

You have never met me. I am a total stranger. You do not know me, stop trying to claim you do. You do not have all girls sorted and compiled into a list of handy hints, because believe it or not all girls are different. I would never claim to know how either of you want to be treated, or how you act as a person, because I do not know you, so stop trying to generalise about me.

How would you like it if I said; "But you're a man, that means you all behave in the same ridiculous way."

The funny thing is, you girls DO do that. Ever read a womans mag with dating 'tips' or insights into "how men think" They are laughably wrong, but would probably work anyway.

You're right though, I don't know how you think, or indeed any woman it seems. You could read my posts in the chat thread if you wanted to find that out

What you women say you want and what you actually want are generally not the same thing. Sweeping generalisation I know but Meh. I bet many tiimes you answered "Nothing" if your manfriend asks whats wrong, then get mad with him for not reading your mind to find out what's actually wrong. If not, you will do.

I give up.

Many of the things in that list will work for a lot of women. There are many things that most women respond to, and whether they like it or not, it's pre-built into them, not controlled by them like they like to believe. There's behaviour traits like this is men too. The main key thing that it boils down to underneath is the ability to be confident.

All the people who say that compiling a list of things is stupid, I wouldn't go too overboard. We're all human. We're often governed by an innate set of rules which we don't have much control over. That's not to say everyone can be predicted, as all people are different. Also, saying that you must be desperate to follow these rules - I guess if you try to follow it by the book, it's going a bit overboard, but there's no harm in taking some of it under your belt. Not all guys understand the way in which people respond to things like eye contact, body language and confident exterior image and have to learn (I know I did), whereas the ones who are already confident with women will either not know that others don't know, or they'll not be interested in telling them so they can stay as the ones getting the women!

Score 1 for the misogynists.

Anung Un Rama wrote:

Tragic Magic wrote:Here's a good ******* idea!

Be yourself.

Then maybe you'll find someone that actually likes you for who you are and not some tard who follows instructions on the internet.

This. dont be a sheep.

This

trelliz wrote:

1cmanny1 wrote:

Let's be honest: Good-looking women in the 21st century have all the power in the world. That's very attractive women rule men. Sex is available on demand. And, money gushes from male wallets. Without lifting a finger, very attractive women enjoy lives that most people can only dream about.

For men, the lure of dating very attractive women is obvious. Hotties are arm candy. They boost self-esteem. They even improve a guy's sex life by making him more in-demand.

This is why I don't go for "hotties". nerdy women > "hotties". Nerds are more interesting and (imho) a LOT more attractive. My gf is nerdy, and contrary to advice to "hide halo action figures", has set aside the top of one of our bookcases for assorted game/film models. Ultimately, if a woman can't accept all aspects of your life then it's just not going to work. A friend of mine's now ex-gf threw out a shedload of his wargaming models and stuff. They stayed together for a while after that, I would have pressed criminal charges/killed her myself.

I read something like this several years ago when I was in a major slump before i met my gf, and while it all "made sense", i was still a social misanthrope underneath. It's all well and good reading it and going "yeah! let's do this!" however if you still fold in social situations its not much good.

All this advice to "be yourself" is also an interesting one, which is far easier to dispense from above than to accept and crucially understand from below. Ultimately it comes down to being clean and nice.

Also this!

I'm actually in communique's with a nice nerdy girl now.

Cuban Pete wrote:I'm wasted around here.

I wish I was, drinking at work is frowned upon.

I'd also like to appologise to Emily if I sounded twat like towards women. I just lack faith in your gender at the moment for reasons that I've already documented.

lol wut?

Tragic Magic wrote:Here's a good strawberry floating idea!

Be yourself.

Then maybe you'll find someone that actually likes you for who you are and not some tard who follows instructions on the internet.

But they are true.. Apart from the couple of points highlighted by Emily, such as telling a girl she's not good enough for you (:|), and the point about telling a girl you just want to be mates (again, ).

The way you put it, Tragic, makes it easy to dismiss the list as a pile of crap for desperate losers on the internet, but it has a lot of truth in it (apart from a few duff points).

Like Denster said, this isn't about meeting the love of your life, getting a golden retriever and having babies, it's about picking up women. Specifically fit women who know they are fit, who think and act differently from other girls. We've all known them, surely, and you know I'm right. That said, it's pretty solid advice for picking up women whatever they're out of ten rating is, and whatever you do lads, never, ever listen to women on advice about other picking up other women. They will undoubtedly get it wrong nearly every single time because they don't know what they want themselves, they just think they do.

Just listen to someone who knows what they are doing when it comes to this sort of thing, because last time I checked most girls don't try and pull other girls in bars and clubs and if they did they'd be a waste of time anyway, so what could they possibly know?

trelliz wrote:Ultimately, if a woman can't accept all aspects of your life then it's just not going to work.

So you'd say you were an easy going sort of boyfriend then, prepared to make sacrifices and accept your girlfriends tastes, then?

trelliz wrote:All this advice to "be yourself" is also an interesting one, which is far easier to dispense from above than to accept and crucially understand from below. Ultimately it comes down to being clean and nice.

Clean and nice?

JNR wrote:last time I checked most girls don't try and pull other girls in bars and clubs and if they did they'd be a waste of time anyway, so what could they possibly know?