Karl_ wrote:Women and men as social groups exist in a social hierarchy, comparable in some ways to that of the proletariat and bourgeoisie. Phrases like #MenAreTrash and #EatTheRich are useful as a rallying idea, and a message of radicalisation, for the oppressed group in those hierarchies. Social movements typically need radical rhetoric to be effective.
Some #NotAllMen men might need the thrust of the argument to be clarified, but we can do that in the ensuing conversation. Other #NotAllMen men are reactionary counterrevolutionaries who won't be happy with any genuinely radical change. The risk with apologising for or changing a movement's radical rhetoric is that if you give reactionaries an inch they'll take a mile.
When has radical and alienating rhetoric ever resulted in a positive change though?
Consider:
I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.”
I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.
I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.
I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today.
I have a dream that one day down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of “interposition” and “nullification”, one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers. I have a dream today.
For it’s time that was a radical speech, but Dr King was clever enough to not say “those white people are bastards!”, his whole speech was about the races coming together and living together in harmony and with true justice.
Dr King would have been well within his rights (well well well well within!!) to have said that white people are trash. They damn well were and most still are. But it doesn’t advance the cause to say something that instantly allows the oppressor to get out of answering the actual question. Saying “white people are trash” converts nobody. Saying “I have a dream of peace, equality and unity between races” is a lot harder to argue with.
One of the main troubles with progressives at the moment is the branding. I understand what is meant by “Men are trash” and I don’t disagree, but you lose the argument when it’s used, as instead of getting a rational discussion you will simply get a barrage of “not all men!” comments and your actual point is lost.
The far right are absolutely kicking the ass of progressives in this regard. People like Farage wised up a long time ago. Rather than scrawling swastikas on walls and writing “Pakis go home!” on family homes, they realised that they get better results by hiding their message. Saying “Isn’t all this Muslim terrorism bad” is far far more effective than saying “Pakis eh, they smell of curry lol!”. By being smarter they can suck in people that wouldn’t even contemplate being racist and it’s then easy to gaslight them into worse and worse positions.
If you want to win, then you need to be less radical and more diplomatic. Not because the arseholes deserve diplomacy (they don’t) but because you need the undecideds in the middle. You don’t have to become a centrist (god forbid
) but you need to get those centrists broadly agreeing with you before they get swept up by the arseholes.