kerr9000 wrote:Green Gecko wrote:One in five adult males likely have autistic traits, or are diagnosable, is a widely acknowledged figure via the national autistic society. It's less common in women for some reason, likely due to chromosome and inheritance stuff as it does have a genetic basis. If you have father or grandfathers with autistic traits you probably have them too. Both of my grandparents were quite odd (and extremely talented), for example they struggled in "normal" jobs/society and were unique in their ways, their abilities, and ended up self employed for long periods, or purposefully isolated. They were also highly dependent on their wives to carry out things outside of their particular interests, relating to other people, managing emotions, I.e. Were hopeless on their own.
So the connection doesn't surprise me at all; that said, they both had lifelong marriages and functional lives. I have high functioning autism generally characterised as Asperger's; it's much less likely to be diagnosed outside of the near "savant" types (which itself is actually a different form of autism often known as "savant syndrome" where there are very marked impacts on daily functioning but exceptional talents in others I.e. Human calculator, photographic memory etc etc). It's a spectrum condition and so there will be a huge part of the population, most likely millions, who struggle with many of the same areas of life.
It's important to remember that autism is not to be characterised as a disease, sometimes it's called a "disorder" but really it is a condition or neurological difference, and it's a part of a larger movement in neurodiversity that includes things like dyslexia, dyscalcula, dyspraxia, ADD/ADHD, OCD, bipolar, borderline personality, depression and many other types of mind that are extremely common in the general population but are suppressed in school and mainstream society as "wrong" in some way. This is simply not true.
My Dad's normal as anything, great at talking to people so we're my grandparents and brothers but I tend to be the odd sheep of the family , I'm the families first epileptic so maybe the first autistic as well, my dad's been bloody fab with all my issues during life though which really helps, strangely my daughter's far more normal than me as well it's weird how stuff seems to pass on or not pass on .
My dad lacks empathy but honestly I think is just more selfish and potentially sociopathic than autistic. I find autistic people to be very energetic (this may be expressed in non-verbal or private ways such as writing or art) and passionate and very much want to give whereas my father never really seemed to want to give anything without a transaction or a qualifier of some kind i.e. what could he get out of the situation or how did it make him feel about it. I suppose an autistic person could slide in that direction but as he has managed to climb the ranks of academia and deceive individuals I think he is too emotionally intelligent in the wrong way (i.e. masterminding and manipulating) to be classically autistic or HFA.
His father however and my grandfather on the other side certainly had some of the traits. So it may skip a generation or three, or it may not occur at all and then randomly mutate, this is literally just nature in action and it's very interesting from the perspective of neuroscience and darwinism why this might happen and what it is useful for as well as not so useful. But really we should be looking deeply to understand each individual, to understand their strengths and weakness and how they can participate, enjoy and contribute to what society has to offer rather than resigning to a particular area or discipline for example art, computer science or factory work, or not work and stay at home reading for life or whatever (I don't think autistics are able to really stop learning or stop seeking information, sensory seeking and a huge thirst for information is definitely a feature of autistics).
Polymathematicism (the ability to be an expert in a multitude of closely or loosely related subjects, or even completely unrelated subjects) is also more common because the autistic brain tends to have a profound capacity for storing lots of information, but not necessarily have the ability to act so much on that information. So autistic people might make good lecturers (like my dad) or teachers or consultants, there is a space in the professional services sector too. For example characters like Leonardo Da Vinci might have been autistic or in the more specific areas, Einstein or I think I have read of Darwin as well (interestingly these are all men, well patriarchy aside autism as a fact occurs more in men). But these individuals were also remote, closed off and struggled greatly either in their interactions with others from time to time, and/or actually executing on their ideas, organising their lives, coming out of their shell and truly exercising their talents. They depended on patronage, tenures, professorships etc. for longer term economic security. This is a really big problem for most autistic people because it is a disorder of social communication that is a requirement to succeed by most measures in our world, although I would encourage it is 100% ok to "just be" as well; I myself really struggle with the constant notion that I must be doing this or that or achieving this or that or I am failing in some way (this is a near constant cause of my depression, my urge to achieve things while not always having the day to day ability to do those things). Some autistics never really find their groove and that is very sad, nonetheless there is a niche for everyone and autistic people are excellent at learning lots of details about a specific area should the want or need arise (or they may have absolutely no interest in anything else except playing cards or trains or maths or video games or music or whatever, it could literally be any one of or multiple special interests).
While everything to do with poisoning or vaccines has no scientific consensus (or even credible evidence) it's a combination of both environmental and genetic factors, besides that it's really poorly understood. The healthiest and most accurate way of looking at it (as accurate as this sort of thing can be) is simply that brains don't all magically develop in some kind of perfect alignment; brains are markedly different, not only in how different areas of the brain are activated or stimulated, but also in how they are connected up. This kind of thing only started to gain scientific credibility with the advent of deeper scans of the brain while functioning (i.e. not just cutting up dead brains) and also psychology in general. This (the brain) is just different in autistic people or any other neurodivergence. The entire nervous system (that is of course your "trunk" of signalling that is connected to the stem of your brain) is also implicated and in some conditions that's involving the biochemical/hormonal regulation in the body too (for example serotonin is a neurotransmitter hormone that aids in the normal distribution of electrical signals from nerves to the brain and back again). So the nervous system is also different in autistic people because these are roots and the leaves that branch out of the brain, so of course it is more than just a "brain developmental disorder".
I learnt from the programme "Good Doctor" (the original Korean version which is better in my opinion) that in Korea autism (or "savant syndrome" in this case, although honestly it is closer to a HFA as depicted) is considered a disorder of the nervous system. I like this idea because it doesn't consider the brain this ridiculous floating entity that is totally apart from the rest of our system. Autism implicates the full nervous system in a rich variety of ways, such as this is the reason hypersensitivity to noise, bright lights, lots of voices talking at once etc is often overstimulating. Of course it is our nervous system and senses that detect these things; the brain is simply processing (or over- or under-processing) them. This can result in a range of talents but also make it difficult to cope in busy environments we have today, and because of that not being the deliberate efforts of any individual but a consequence of industrialised and tightly communal society, it is society's role to help people adapt or cope with this environment as nobody can do that completely alone, just as much as they aren't expected to learn to read and write on their own or to do maths on their own, or even learn to walk on their own, or gooseberry fool in a toilet on their own. If they are excluded and not able (or enabled) to operate as part of this society then their life will suffer as a result, which is a core observation of our equality rights.
It's really good to seek and get a diagnosis if you want one because while it is by no means easy to get help these days, unfortunately, you will probably qualify for benefit and be protected under employment rights and the disability act to get help with certain everyday or professional activities, whether that's charity or direct from the government (e.g. Access to Work) and it also on a more personal level may help you understand yourself better and generally feel more responsible and less confused about feeling different or "just awkward or wrong" in various situations. By knowing you are empowering yourself to act and get the help you may qualify for rather than potentially beating yourself up about it in those situations where you struggle and everyone else seems to find these things a piece of cake.