Anyway,may stayed this on PC now I've got one that can actually handle it. With the right mods installed it actually looks quite nice, and some of the stuff the community has added are real game changers. Favourite is definitely the binning of the stupid dialogue wheel for old school F3 options.
Personally yes. I'm 60+ hrs in and barely at 20% of the main story completed if that. Sooooo much to do, especially scrap salvage and settlement building (which is entirely optional but for some reason I love it!)