Hmmm... Advice would be welcomed.

PostHmmm... Advice would be welcomed. by **Wedgie** » Tue Sep 29, 2009 11:28 am

Hi GRcade!

As you may know, I've splitted up from the mother of my wee baby, just a few days before the birth.

In the past two weeks, she's been running around telling people that I have asked her back after a court case (I was the "victim" to be clear about that!) that finally got done and dusted after almost two years of stress. I only learned of this today, and I was baffled.

I even checked my mobile to see if I have send her the said text to see if I did send a misleading text or not. The only thing I have said is that I'm glad that the court case is all over and dusted, and I can move on with my life finally and focus on my wee girl.

It only come up after I said that hell will freeze over before we get back together, and the person said that she've been telling people that I have asked her back. I actually lol'd, then doubt creep in, thinking "Did I do that?"

But thankfully I haven't send a said text, and to my best recollection I have never asked her back in person.

I don't know why but I am raging about it and a bit scared for her. It's clear that she's nuts. Plainly nuts.

Oh well... what should I do? Challenge her or just leave her to it?

maybe she thought you meant that she was your 'wee girl'?

or maybe it's all a misunderstanding...

prob best to try to speak to her sensibly and find out, because after all you're going to need to communicate on some level for the sake of your child...so best not to let it fester and make things worse than they (unfortunately) probably will be...

Leave her to it. At the end of the day she's the one who's gonna end up looking the fool. Like you said, carry on looking after the little un, that's the main thing for you.

Punch her in the womb….

I would ignore her and only state your case if somebody else brings it up. She is obviously mental and I wouldn’t let it bother you. You have a kid with her so you need to keep relations civil for your daughters sake.

Sounds like you've been leading her on at a point in her life when she's at her most vulnerable. No wonder the poor girls confused.

Just leave her to it. It sounds like anything you do say will be twisted around, so best say nothing. I made the mistake of marrying a crazy mentalist but luckily we didn't have any kids. She would just invent bizarre lies for no reason and would just make up more lies to cover her inital lie when confronted. It was quite amusing to watch when I got past the stage of giving a gooseberry fool.

When I first left her I was scared of what lies she would invent and spread about me (to give you an example of how evil her lies were, she told me her brother had raped her when she was younger and she had stabbed him. Then when her brother said he was coming up to visit she quickly changed it to her dad raping her). I bumped into her "best friend" a few years later and discovered that everyone knew she was mental and wondered why I had lasted so long with her.

So if your ex is in anyway similar, and I think she may well be, then most people in your circle will know the truth.

Barley wrote:Sounds like you've been leading her on at a point in her life when she's at her most vulnerable. No wonder the poor girls confused.

You're new here, right? :lol:

Well she's got a new boyfriend, just three weeks after the birth of our daughter. I can't be bothered to type out what hell I have been going through on this forum again. Search the off-topic, boy. But I can tell you one thing: She dumped me a few days before the birth of our premature baby without any reason. Just like that. So I've struggled with it for past 6 months, and only just got used to be a single father three weeks ago, and got mentally stronger. And now this gooseberry fool has happened again.

Oh well, I'll just leave it at that and let her to dream in a fantasy world. I am trying to be civil towards her for my wee girl's sake but don't I expect her to be civil towards me too?

It's enough to put me off having another relationship. But I wouldn't let her win...

i'd like to clarify i misunderstood your post and thought we were still 'before the birth'...

Bang her one more time, releases stress.

Stick it in her pooper.

You should go on to the end, you should fight her in France,
You should fight her on the seas and oceans,
You should fight her with growing confidence and growing strength in the air, You should defend your Island, whatever the cost may be,
You should fight her on the beaches,
You should fight her on the landing grounds,
You should fight her in the fields and in the streets,
You should fight her in the hills;
You should never surrender

Not your fault, I did post it based on my last topic.

Ah well, I've decided to leave it as it is. The more people come and ask me, the more they'll find out it isn't true, leaving her with an egg on her face.

Wedgie wrote:Well she's got a new boyfriend, just three weeks after the birth of our daughter.

Three weeks? Blimey.

What kind of sad desperado taps up the mother of a three week old baby?

Dblock wrote:Bang her one more time, releases stress.

Nah... she's an used goods thanks to her new boyfriend. :shifty:

Wedgie wrote:
You're new here, right?

Haha!

Octoroc wrote:
Wedgie wrote:Well she's got a new boyfriend, just three weeks after the birth of our daughter.

Three weeks? Blimey.

What kind of sad desperado taps up the mother of a three week old baby?

Well it's a long story. She was having an affair with him three years ago. EDIT: Way before we got together.

Now he's splitted up with his wife. And I've got a good feeling that she's been planning it before dumping me, basing on what little reason she gave me for dumping me.

And what's more, the more I heard about what her boyfriend is like, the more my skin crawls. But then it's not my problem unless he hurt my wee girl. Then he'll have me to answer to!

What's the guy like? I only ask as you say 'if he hurts my wee girl' Is he violent?

Wedgie wrote:
Octoroc wrote:
Wedgie wrote:Well she's got a new boyfriend, just three weeks after the birth of our daughter.

Three weeks? Blimey.

What kind of sad desperado taps up the mother of a three week old baby?

Well it's a long story. She was having an affair with him three years ago. EDIT: Way before we got together.

Now he's splitted up with his wife. And I've got a good feeling that she's been planning it before dumping me, basing on what little reason she gave me for dumping me.

And what's more, the more I heard about what her boyfriend is like, the more my skin crawls. But then it's not my problem unless he hurt my wee girl. Then he'll have me to answer to!

Don't you ever go back to the whore. The kid is yours right? Even if she isn't, just fight for custody if she ever tries taking her away from you.

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Pedz wrote:What's the guy like? I only ask as you say 'if he hurts my wee girl' Is he violent?

Yeah he is... forced his wife to have sex with him. If that isn't violent, then what is it?

And a guy that's going around having affairs.

And what's more he's still wearing his wedding ring, saying that he can't let her go. And yet he's with my ex. And my ex just accepts it.

She isn't the same person I know and loved. She's changed.

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$ilva $hadow wrote:
Wedgie wrote:
Octoroc wrote:
Wedgie wrote:Well she's got a new boyfriend, just three weeks after the birth of our daughter.

Three weeks? Blimey.

What kind of sad desperado taps up the mother of a three week old baby?

Well it's a long story. She was having an affair with him three years ago. EDIT: Way before we got together.

Now he's splitted up with his wife. And I've got a good feeling that she's been planning it before dumping me, basing on what little reason she gave me for dumping me.

And what's more, the more I heard about what her boyfriend is like, the more my skin crawls. But then it's not my problem unless he hurt my wee girl. Then he'll have me to answer to!

Don't you ever go back to the whore. The kid is yours right? Even if she isn't, just fight for custody if she ever tries taking her away from you.

Never. Not in a hell's chance that I will ever go back to her.

And the kid is mine. The poor girl looks like me. :lol:

Hmmm... Advice would be welcomed.

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