Relationship Thread V3 + Fade Broke Up With His Tortoise :(

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by Jenu-All I Want For Christmas » Wed Nov 27, 2019 10:56 pm

Yeah really sorry to hear that Mini E. Hang in there man and use whatever support networks (including this place!) you have where possible.

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by Hyperion » Wed Nov 27, 2019 11:33 pm

Really sorry to hear that.
Perhaps if you're feeling up to it, now might be the time to restart your running, think you said you'd stopped? Doing that or going for bike rides is a good way to clear your head

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by Rocking Around the Mini E » Thu Nov 28, 2019 8:42 am

Thanks guys :wub: Some GRcade sympathy is always appreciated :wub: Just not entirely sure what to do with myself at this point until things get better. Running again is probably a good shout, Hyperion :) Thanks.

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by Bethlehemster » Thu Nov 28, 2019 8:48 am

Try and focus on getting the stuff done. You're probsnly angry or will be at times. At yourself, your partner - the circumstances. Try and keep it civil and make it as clean a break as possible. You'll feel a lot better for it. Its OK to feel like gooseberry fool at times. It's a strawberry floated up awful thing. You'll have phases of being OK then the sense of loss will creep up on you from time to time.
Try not to wallow in it but do allow yourself to grieve.
Friends, family and outlets like this place. Use them.

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by A Beautiful Kezmas Tree » Thu Nov 28, 2019 11:05 am

gooseberry fool mate that sucks.

When you feel like a re-bound, I'll marry you. :wub:

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by jimbojango » Thu Nov 28, 2019 11:48 am

Mini E wrote:Thanks guys :wub: Some GRcade sympathy is always appreciated :wub: Just not entirely sure what to do with myself at this point until things get better. Running again is probably a good shout, Hyperion :) Thanks.


Sorry to hear that, please take care of yourself.

Try and find your nearest park run - it’s been an amazing help for me. The people have been really supportive and it’s been a good way to make new social connections.

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by Hexx » Thu Nov 28, 2019 11:51 am

Kezzer wrote:When you feel like a re-bound, I'll marry you. :wub:


If we're allowed to offer re-bound services I'm there

(Sorry to hear Mini-E. Too nice a chap for bad things to happen to :( but I'm confident you'll be fine)

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by Rocking Around the Mini E » Thu Nov 28, 2019 4:30 pm

Thanks guys :wub: I do have a lot of love for this place.

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by A Beautiful Kezmas Tree » Thu Dec 05, 2019 2:06 pm

I have been in a relationship about a year now and our 1st date 'anniversary' is coming up soon. Any idea on gifts?

I am hopeless with this kind of stuff, and given this is the longest relationship I have been in I feel as if it is expected of me to get /do something to mark the occasion

help appreciated.

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by Jenu-All I Want For Christmas » Thu Dec 05, 2019 2:15 pm

A Beautiful Kezmas Tree wrote:I have been in a relationship about a year now and our 1st date 'anniversary' is coming up soon.


No gooseberry fool! ;)

Depends on what your partner likes, what kind of relationship you have, how they receive love/affection etc. A nice date like a posh meal is always a good anniversary option in my book!

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by Victor Mistletoe » Thu Dec 05, 2019 2:21 pm

I wouldn't do anything for anniversaries outside of marriage ones tbh.

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by Cheeky Devlin » Thu Dec 05, 2019 2:26 pm

Take them out for dinner and get them something nice.

You don't need to go overboard, but you should make some effort to acknowledge it.

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by A Beautiful Kezmas Tree » Thu Dec 05, 2019 2:40 pm

Victor Mistletoe wrote:I wouldn't do anything for anniversaries outside of marriage ones tbh.


that was my initial thoughts, but I also don't want to be this gooseberry fool if that is not what she is expecting :lol:

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by OrangeXMS » Thu Dec 05, 2019 2:46 pm

Jenu-All I Want For Christmas wrote:
A Beautiful Kezmas Tree wrote:I have been in a relationship about a year now and our 1st date 'anniversary' is coming up soon.


No gooseberry fool! ;)


:lol:

What was your first date? Do the same thing again. Ours was the cinema and a meal, so we went from Jurassic World with Nandos to Independence Day 2 and Pizza Hut a year later. I will leave the assessment of our relationship's trajectory based on those facts up to the reader.

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by Bunni » Thu Dec 05, 2019 3:00 pm

A Beautiful Kezmas Tree wrote:I have been in a relationship about a year now and our 1st date 'anniversary' is coming up soon. Any idea on gifts?

I am hopeless with this kind of stuff, and given this is the longest relationship I have been in I feel as if it is expected of me to get /do something to mark the occasion

help appreciated.


Ours was yesterday (9 years :wub:) and we have a cute tradition of buying an ornament for the tree. We don't bother with presents though, dinner and a holiday to celebrate.

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by Bunni » Thu Dec 05, 2019 3:01 pm

OrangeXMS wrote:
Jenu-All I Want For Christmas wrote:
A Beautiful Kezmas Tree wrote:I have been in a relationship about a year now and our 1st date 'anniversary' is coming up soon.


No gooseberry fool! ;)


:lol:

What was your first date? Do the same thing again. Ours was the cinema and a meal, so we went from Jurassic World with Nandos to Independence Day 2 and Pizza Hut a year later. I will leave the assessment of our relationship's trajectory based on those facts up to the reader.


Nandos for first date? Might as well just marry her already. It's always a winner.

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by Jenu-All I Want For Christmas » Thu Dec 05, 2019 3:03 pm

OrangeXMS wrote:
Jenu-All I Want For Christmas wrote:
A Beautiful Kezmas Tree wrote:I have been in a relationship about a year now and our 1st date 'anniversary' is coming up soon.


No gooseberry fool! ;)


:lol:

What was your first date? Do the same thing again. Ours was the cinema and a meal, so we went from Jurassic World with Nandos to Independence Day 2 and Pizza Hut a year later. I will leave the assessment of our relationship's trajectory based on those facts up to the reader.

How long has the relationship been going now? Given that ID2 was out in summer of 2016 it implies there are 3 subsequent cinema and meal combos that you're holding out on telling us! :capnscotty:

That said it's hard to say how you could drop further than ID2 and Pizza Hut. Captain Underpants and a Gregg's sausage roll perhaps?

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by JChristmas » Thu Dec 05, 2019 3:06 pm

Long gone are the days where everyone just replied "gooseberry fool on Her Tits" straight away.... :shifty:

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by OrangeXMS » Thu Dec 05, 2019 3:07 pm

We gave up after that knowing that ID2 could never be surpassed

Did go to McDonalds on valentines day a few years ago though

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by A Beautiful Kezmas Tree » Thu Dec 05, 2019 3:09 pm

JChristmas wrote:Long gone are the days where everyone just replied "gooseberry fool on Her Tits" straight away.... :shifty:


FML there is a story there :lol:

but I will never tell you lot.

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