Yeah Skarjo's already been caught out once with that train.
I'm reticent to make judgments on other people based on one side of the story and Skarj kind of says himself that it's not necessarily the whole thing, but it certainly sounds like the relationship is hitting its natural end point. As someone said on the last page - if someone came and said that to you, what advice would you give them?
<]:^D wrote:i await the inevitable post from the ex on how one-sided the relationship is being portrayed
gooseberry fool, who did this happen with on here? A couple of years ago someone’s partner created an account and started shooting back at their partner on here
JK I think. And maybe Skarjo. I think it's happened at least twice.
I don't think JK's missus actually joined, she just forced him to leave.
And when my ex turned up she was really rather reasonable IIRC. I think she just wanted a few old posts that had identifying information about her removed which is completely fair. She definitely wasn't dropping bombs which is frankly much nicer than I probably deserved from her.
It was KjGarly's missus who turned up taking names, saying about how his complaints about how controlling she was amounted to asking him to wear jeans when they were going to the theatre.
With regards to the current issue, I told her that things were over, but we talked about it a lot and we're going to try and work through it. As I alluded to, I do have my own gooseberry fool going and it's definitely not a one way street when it comes to the causes of issues in the relationship. I think the current situation is just a perfect storm for bringing out the worst of both our personalities and we need to be a bit more open about how to deal with each other.