Cuttooth wrote:Fade wrote:Well the mutual friend is in charge of our team
Gut reaction is this makes it even worse.
Intimate relationships within teams can be a nightmare to work around for a team leader, and can make things awkward with others in the team. You strike me as someone who doesn’t particularly want to hear answers you don’t like, what happens if your mutual friend tries to dissuade you from making a move because it ultimately makes their life a bit easier?
Exactly. Which is why I'm not being a twat and just asking her out. I don't want to make anyone else's work life more difficult.
I don't mind hearing stuff I don't like. I wouldn't be talking to my friend if that was the case right, I'd just go for it.
If she says she thinks it's a bad idea I'd just move on. In the past I would have just not done anything so I'm making progress