Relationship Thread V3 + Fade Broke Up With His Tortoise :(

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by False » Mon Mar 09, 2020 7:45 pm

ahhh... bad times

sisters of mercy - more was one of my preferred tunes during the grim parts

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by Christopher » Mon Mar 09, 2020 7:47 pm

False wrote:ahhh... bad times

sisters of mercy - more was one of my preferred tunes during the grim parts


Good choice.

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by ITSMILNER » Mon Mar 09, 2020 8:13 pm

Just reading through of the posts, I’m so sorry for all you guys going through things. Just remember there is light at the end of what look like very dark times.

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by Mini E » Mon Mar 09, 2020 8:20 pm

suzzopher wrote:Well I think that is that :cry:


Hello mate - as I said a couple of pages ago, I'm now almost four months down the line from the marriage breakdown. To be honest it's still fairly gooseberry fool, but lights at the end of the tunnel do (and will) start appearing. Drop me a PM if you want to chat about anything to do the situation, what to expect, how gooseberry fool it is etc. etc. <3 <3

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by Parksey » Tue Mar 10, 2020 1:45 am

Yeah, even if you did absolutely nothing towards moving on, starting afresh etc. you can always be confident that time will heal a lot of the pain just by itself. Your "new normal" now, will just become "normal", and you'll cope. It'll be painful for many months, I'm sure, but that pain will ease.

Also at least you can be content that you gave it your all fixing things and that due to your wife's stubbornness and fixatedness, there was likely nothing more to be done. To be blunt, it quite frankly sounds like she didn't deserve the effort and anguish you were putting in.

Now we all need to think of a great new username for you...

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by Christopher » Tue Mar 10, 2020 3:04 am

Thanks Parksey.

Well I fell asleep crying and have woken up in tears.

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by Preezy » Tue Mar 10, 2020 11:17 am

Just echoing all of the other sentiments in here - time is a great healer, suzz, you'll be ok and we're all here for you if you want to talk about it in any detail. Take care of yourself and stay positive x

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by Dual » Tue Mar 10, 2020 11:23 am

Sending positive thoughts your way Suzz. Stay safe bro xxx

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by Clarkman » Tue Mar 10, 2020 11:39 am

Brutal situation Suzz. I have no doubt that it will be better for your long term health and happiness. You are worthy of love and don't need to settle for less. Take some time to heal.

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by Christopher » Tue Mar 10, 2020 1:00 pm

Thanks guys, today has been strawberry floating gooseberry fool, had to deal with some kids bullying my 7 year old and then taking my daughter to the doctors to try and get some advice on her lack of sleeping.

Went into the office as I can't sit and work from home. I have sat myself well away from everyone though, so I can at least be left alone.

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by Fade » Wed Mar 11, 2020 6:20 am

Sorry to hear you're having a really gooseberry fool time Sizzopher :|

On a more positive note, I met someone on Tinder. We spent like 3 hours talking on the phone before we met, then spent another 3 hours talking on the date.

She's very clearly super into me, going round hers to 'watch a film' tomorrow 8-)

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by Preezy » Wed Mar 11, 2020 9:49 am

Fade wrote:Sorry to hear you're having a really gooseberry fool time Sizzopher :|

On a more positive note, I met someone on Tinder. We spent like 3 hours talking on the phone before we met, then spent another 3 hours talking on the date.

She's very clearly super into me, going round hers to 'watch a film' tomorrow 8-)

Narrator: Fade was then forced to watch Transformers: Age of Extinction :dread:

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by Albear » Wed Mar 11, 2020 10:46 am

Let's all just hope Fade's application for the Samaritan helpline is unsuccessful.

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by Tomous » Wed Mar 11, 2020 10:47 am

:lol:

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by Fade » Wed Mar 11, 2020 6:14 pm

:slol:

I was just trying to be nice!

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by Clarkman » Mon Mar 16, 2020 2:50 pm

Could someone on the dating apps please confirm how horny they are right now amidst virus/isolation fever?

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by Hexx » Mon Mar 16, 2020 4:13 pm

Clarkman wrote:Could someone on the dating apps please confirm how horny they are right now amidst virus/isolation fever?


SUPER Horny.

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by Mini E » Mon Mar 16, 2020 5:04 pm

suzzopher wrote:-


Hope the week has become more bearable, mate.

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by Clarkman » Mon Mar 16, 2020 5:05 pm

Hexx wrote:
Clarkman wrote:Could someone on the dating apps please confirm how horny they are right now amidst virus/isolation fever?


SUPER Horny.


I know the gays would be popping off :datass: Hope you find some sweet dudes Hexxy

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by Hexx » Mon Mar 16, 2020 5:06 pm

Clarkman wrote:
Hexx wrote:
Clarkman wrote:Could someone on the dating apps please confirm how horny they are right now amidst virus/isolation fever?


SUPER Horny.


I know the gays would be popping off :datass: Hope you find some sweet dudes Hexxy


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