Hime wrote:Sure, but then there is also a more significant part of you that is committed to your relationship and values everything it brings you, and that should be the reason you don't act on the temptation. What I really meant is that you should only have doubts if the reasons you didn't act were less noble like a fear of getting caught.
This is pretty much the problem in my mind, are those two things mutually exclusive in that you don't act on your desires because you don't want to do it or you don't want to get caught? I can't say for sure where I sit but I guess it has to be a positive that I didn't do anything.
See I know for sure that she will definitely not have this kind of thing as she has major loyalty issues coming from a broken home and to be honest she isn't that outwardly sexual. That probably makes me feel worse, especially when I can't say that I will never be in this situation again. That in itself brings a load more complications as how do you know that you won't meet someone you're more compatible with?
God only knows what the stag do is going to do me mentally.[/quote]
Sounds like it's just jitters, don't let anxiety ruin your chance of a happy marriage. I assume you asked your fiance to marry you because you actually like her overall as a person, when you meet someone new you'll just see that tiny bit of them and think wow they seem great and might be excited, but it's only a temporary feeling. Don't be a Skarjo.