Lads
Was distracted when writing that post, 2-3 times a week.
Although I did date a nymphomaniac where it was that 8-15 constantly, was strawberry floating awful.
It's a concern to me that if we're doing it this amount at this point it's going to be massively downhill in future though. And even the sex we do have isn't exactly mind blowing, harsh as it may sound. It's tough for me that she finds it so difficult to finish as it takes away a large part of the enjoyment for me, even if she says she doesn't mind.
Like I say I've discussed it with her already but need to figure out if it's a deal breaker for me. Been reading a lot about avoidant attachment today which is for sure me too, I'm hopeless at sticking with someone in the medium to long term.
Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.