Relationship Thread V4

[Errkal]

my ex has secretly charged the house tax, her insurance, debits etc to my accounts

only found out today when checking money for the weekend

she has also been awol from any form of contact since 7pm yesterday

left me 300 overdrawn on main account and 500 over my credit limit on card

That’s proper gooseberry fool! Can you go initially via the bank to get it back technically it is fraud the same as any other so they should be able to credit back then kick off the investigation.

[Trelliz]

Once you sort that out I recommend getting new bank accounts and closing the old ones.

[Prototype]

my ex has secretly charged the house tax, her insurance, debits etc to my accounts

only found out today when checking money for the weekend

she has also been awol from any form of contact since 7pm yesterday

left me 300 overdrawn on main account and 500 over my credit limit on card

Do direct debit mandates not require signature?

[Preezy]

Yeah, there's no way of saying it without sounding like a dick but I know how to get women off, I've been with enough.

GET A LOAD OF THIS GUY JEE-ZUS

[Corazon de Leon]

my ex has secretly charged the house tax, her insurance, debits etc to my accounts

only found out today when checking money for the weekend

she has also been awol from any form of contact since 7pm yesterday

left me 300 overdrawn on main account and 500 over my credit limit on card

Do direct debit mandates not require signature?

No, they don’t. If you know the DD details it’s not that hard to set one up.

[coldspice]

my ex has secretly charged the house tax, her insurance, debits etc to my accounts

only found out today when checking money for the weekend

she has also been awol from any form of contact since 7pm yesterday

left me 300 overdrawn on main account and 500 over my credit limit on card

Do direct debit mandates not require signature?

No, they don’t. If you know the DD details it’s not that hard to set one up.

They don't require a signature, but whenever you set one up, you have to confirm that you are the only account holder or that you have permission from all account holders.

[Prototype]

my ex has secretly charged the house tax, her insurance, debits etc to my accounts

only found out today when checking money for the weekend

she has also been awol from any form of contact since 7pm yesterday

left me 300 overdrawn on main account and 500 over my credit limit on card

Do direct debit mandates not require signature?

No, they don’t. If you know the DD details it’s not that hard to set one up.

They don't require a signature, but whenever you set one up, you have to confirm that you are the only account holder or that you have permission from all account holders.

Contact Action Fraud falsey

[False]

I had a random call off a mutual friend today that lasted over an hour, she was telling me all the ways Eve is trying to ruin my life behind the scenes

apparently this mutual friend is now completely disinterested in what she has to say because she know its fabrications having been in the situations or whatever is being described to try and shoot me down

she literally just said to me that she is being a nasty bitch and is trying to destroy my life via every avenue she has access to

[DarkRula]

And that just shows you how some people can be extremely petty when things don't go their way.

Here's hoping no lasting harm comes from whetever happens and that things that have already happened (like that money business) can get sorted fast. She needs to just lay off and move on.

[Yubel]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

[SEP]

It's been over 5 years since I last had sex, and I'm OK. Apart from dressing up like Freddie Mercury and lip-syncing to Radio Gaga.

[Tsunade]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

For some people it is a necessity, some people just need sex. Some feel that they need that sexual chemistry to make it work, others don't, it depends on the person. By the sounds of it, it is something important to Rocsteady. Just because you haven't ever touched yourself doesn't mean anything, it just means that you haven't ever had a wank.

[Tomous]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

You realise people have completely different sex drives right?

[Moggy]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

[Rocsteady]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

Cool story bro.

The last couple of days it's actually improved massively, we've found ways to make it work for both of us and she's put effort into understanding my point of view on the topic which is hugely important. Obviously early days but tentatively positive signs.

[Rocsteady]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

Also, actually, what? You've never once made yourself cum? I get that people are asexual but surely even just once out of curiosity you would've given it a shot.

[Yubel]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

You realise people have completely different sex drives right?

I hadn't considered that, but I can't help feeling there's more merit in her being a caring and fun person - that's on top of still engaging physically 2-3 times a week(!) by the way, which I'd assume is quite uncommon as is.

[Tsunade]

It's a lot more common than you think Yubel

[Errkal]

Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.

You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.

Also, actually, what? You've never once made yourself cum? I get that people are asexual but surely even just once out of curiosity you would've given it a shot.

At 27 year giving it a go would end up like the scene in scary movie.

[JChalmers]