Yubel wrote:Rocsteady wrote:
Otherwise she's caring and fun and all the rest of it but ultimately if I can't get over this I'm not sure what the alternative is. Apart from wanking a bunch and resigning myself to sub-par sex.
You make it sound like sex is a necessity, like food and sleep. I've gone 27 years without wanking/jacking off or any of that and I'm still standing.
For some people it is a necessity, some people just need sex. Some feel that they need that sexual chemistry to make it work, others don't, it depends on the person. By the sounds of it, it is something important to Rocsteady. Just because you haven't ever touched yourself doesn't mean anything, it just means that you haven't ever had a wank.