Cheers guys. The straw that apparently broke the camel's back for her was the fact that I didn't call her last week as she went away to Wales for a society trip. We exchanged a few texts and she called me on the Friday but other than that, we didn't speak. Because, ya know,
she'd gone away for a week. That might be unreasonable, I dunno.
The weird thing is, it's not like she's staying at home and not doing anything if she's not seeing me. She is involved in a few societies, is pretty involved with her course, etc.. Yet my involvement in a society prompted comments like 'I feel like I'm in a relationship with you and .... society'. I'm involved in a particular university outdoor and sports club and have been since I came to Leeds. My core friend group is made of people from that club, my housemates from the last two years have been from that club, I was president of the club last year, and club activities have me busy one or two evenings a week and most Saturdays or Sundays. In her mind, she should be more important, rather than being
as important. I can't be doing with that.
I only met her mum and brother about a month ago as well, and I was due to go down to her hometown on the 17th for her big birthday party and meet the rest of her family and home friends. It looked like it was heading into long-term territory. But the biggest kick in the teeth is that some other banana split is going to get to appreciate the nice underwear I bought her a few weeks ago.