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[iup=3649068]Falsey[/iup] wrote:She did raw me poor bum though

i can't decipher what this means...

eh?

[iup=3650101]<]:^D[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3649068]Falsey[/iup] wrote:She did raw me poor bum though

i can't decipher what this means...

eh?

It's a typo, he meant "She did draw my poor bum though".

You don't want to see the picture.

it means i got done in the bum dead hard with no mercy

Didn't one girl put an electric buttplug up your arse?

She had an electric buttplug but I didnt experience it. I had electric on me balls and me wee fella. That was more than enough.

I wrote a massive e-mail last night, I wrote down all our issues, our problems, my fears and my hopes. Though I didn't send it.

A massive part of me wants to rekindle our relationship, yet something is also stopping me?????? So confused......

[iup=3650272]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:I wrote a massive e-mail last night, I wrote down all our issues, our problems, my fears and my hopes. Though I didn't send it.

A massive part of me wants to rekindle our relationship, yet something is also stopping me?????? So confused......

what's confusing or is there a previous post you can point me to about it.

[iup=3650290]degoose[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650272]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:I wrote a massive e-mail last night, I wrote down all our issues, our problems, my fears and my hopes. Though I didn't send it.

A massive part of me wants to rekindle our relationship, yet something is also stopping me?????? So confused......

what's confusing or is there a previous post you can point me to about it.

Me and missus split on Christmas Eve and haven't spoke since. Been having rows of late. She lives 65 miles away and cannot drive. Is it worth me having to do all the travelling to her for another potential argument/row etc?! What do I do, cut my losses or try to patch things up???? That's the confusion!

[iup=3650297]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650290]degoose[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650272]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:I wrote a massive e-mail last night, I wrote down all our issues, our problems, my fears and my hopes. Though I didn't send it.

A massive part of me wants to rekindle our relationship, yet something is also stopping me?????? So confused......

what's confusing or is there a previous post you can point me to about it.

Me and missus split on Christmas Eve and haven't spoke since. Been having rows of late. She lives 65 miles away and cannot drive. Is it worth me having to do all the travelling to her for another potential argument/row etc?! What do I do, cut my losses or try to patch things up???? That's the confusion!

You need to decide if you want to be with her. If you do then try and talk it out. If you don't then leave it alone.

None of us can really tell you what to do as your relationship and your feelings are only really known by you. If you think the relationship is worth it (despite the fighting/distance) then you need to decide if you want to try and rekindle it.

[iup=3650297]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650290]degoose[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650272]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:I wrote a massive e-mail last night, I wrote down all our issues, our problems, my fears and my hopes. Though I didn't send it.

A massive part of me wants to rekindle our relationship, yet something is also stopping me?????? So confused......

what's confusing or is there a previous post you can point me to about it.

Me and missus split on Christmas Eve and haven't spoke since. Been having rows of late. She lives 65 miles away and cannot drive. Is it worth me having to do all the travelling to her for another potential argument/row etc?! What do I do, cut my losses or try to patch things up???? That's the confusion!

why can't she drive? cost or is she scared of it?

Both. I believe she had two tests and failed.

Mogs - That's just it I just don't know, the majority of the time it was great so the drive up wasn't so bad. But lately we've been having shitty, pointless arguments, so half the weekend is spent in a bad atmosphere, makes me think do I really need to drive all the way up there for another dose of bad feeling?!

My heart says yes, sort it out. My head says no.

[iup=3650322]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:Both. I believe she had two tests and failed.

Mogs - That's just it I just don't know, the majority of the time it was great so the drive up wasn't so bad. But lately we've been having shitty, pointless arguments, so half the weekend is spent in a bad atmosphere, makes me think do I really need to drive all the way up there for another dose of bad feeling?!

My heart says yes, sort it out. My head says no.

just wondering but who is starting the pointless arguments or is it both of you and what is it about, is it probably the distance situation.

[iup=3650297]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650290]degoose[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650272]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:I wrote a massive e-mail last night, I wrote down all our issues, our problems, my fears and my hopes. Though I didn't send it.

A massive part of me wants to rekindle our relationship, yet something is also stopping me?????? So confused......

what's confusing or is there a previous post you can point me to about it.

Me and missus split on Christmas Eve and haven't spoke since. Been having rows of late. She lives 65 miles away and cannot drive. Is it worth me having to do all the travelling to her for another potential argument/row etc?! What do I do, cut my losses or try to patch things up???? That's the confusion!

Do you make each other happy? It's as simple as that. And if not do you think your problems are likely to change?

At times can be as bad as one another, but most of the time it does 'tend to be her. Whether it's a throw away comment that she jumps on. Sometimes I find I'm walking on eggshells wondering what she'll do or say next to anything I say?! There's a load more to it, personal stuff that I won't be commenting on, but it's just built up over the last couple of months!

Fade - Yeah. Like I said the majority of the time it's been great, but cracks are appearing lately. I dunno, maybe it's worth talking it through, we have done before, but it's only begins again.

[iup=3650333]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:At times can be as bad as one another, but most of the time it does 'tend to be her. Whether it's a throw away comment that she jumps on. Sometimes I find I'm walking on eggshells wondering what she'll do or say next to anything I say?! There's a load more to it, personal stuff that I won't be commenting on, but it's just built up over the last couple of months!

Fade - Yeah. Like I said the majority of the time it's been great, but cracks are appearing lately. I dunno, maybe it's worth talking it through, we have done before, but it's only begins again.

you should probably highlight the eggshells part as I've been there before and it's not comfortable , explain what she does and how it causes a problem. Maybe she is to touchy, some people are overly defensive so she might jump at comments which aren't even for her. I've seen that a few times in the past usually because from my experience a hell of a lot of women aren't very confident of themselves.

[iup=3650322]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:Mogs - That's just it I just don't know, the majority of the time it was great so the drive up wasn't so bad. But lately we've been having shitty, pointless arguments, so half the weekend is spent in a bad atmosphere, makes me think do I really need to drive all the way up there for another dose of bad feeling?!

My heart says yes, sort it out. My head says no.

If all you do is argue and if your head is telling you not to bother then it would seem to be that you have your answer.

It’s not for me to tell you what to do though, you are the only one who knows if she is worth the hassle of driving there for an argument.

[iup=3650337]degoose[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650333]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:At times can be as bad as one another, but most of the time it does 'tend to be her. Whether it's a throw away comment that she jumps on. Sometimes I find I'm walking on eggshells wondering what she'll do or say next to anything I say?! There's a load more to it, personal stuff that I won't be commenting on, but it's just built up over the last couple of months!

Fade - Yeah. Like I said the majority of the time it's been great, but cracks are appearing lately. I dunno, maybe it's worth talking it through, we have done before, but it's only begins again.

you should probably highlight the eggshells part as I've been there before and it's not comfortable , explain what she does and how it causes a problem. Maybe she is to touchy, some people are overly defensive so she might jump at comments which aren't even for her. I've seen that a few times in the past usually because from my experience a hell of a lot of women aren't very confident of themselves.

Oh she's very insecure!

Follow your heart. strawberry float your head. Follow your head if it strawberry floats up next time. Think of yourself in a years time, perhaps in a new relationship? Would you be missing ex and regretting not saving it? If the answer is yes then just try and fix it. If the answer is no then move on....do you think k she has the ability to change? Do you yourself have the ability to change?

[iup=3650402]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650337]degoose[/iup] wrote:

[iup=3650333]Gandalf[/iup] wrote:At times can be as bad as one another, but most of the time it does 'tend to be her. Whether it's a throw away comment that she jumps on. Sometimes I find I'm walking on eggshells wondering what she'll do or say next to anything I say?! There's a load more to it, personal stuff that I won't be commenting on, but it's just built up over the last couple of months!

Fade - Yeah. Like I said the majority of the time it's been great, but cracks are appearing lately. I dunno, maybe it's worth talking it through, we have done before, but it's only begins again.

you should probably highlight the eggshells part as I've been there before and it's not comfortable , explain what she does and how it causes a problem. Maybe she is to touchy, some people are overly defensive so she might jump at comments which aren't even for her. I've seen that a few times in the past usually because from my experience a hell of a lot of women aren't very confident of themselves.

Oh she's very insecure!

I'm sure you probably have, but have you tried addressing that directly?

KingK wrote:changing subject ...... any news Jamcc?

Totally whimper out. Spoke to her a bit on email but that's it. I was kinda feeling a bit down today so wasn't in the mood.

strawberry float. I guess I just have to do it next week?