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Joer wrote:Told Mrs I wanted a divorce the other day. That went well. Asked me if i'd consider staying with her for 6 months to give it a try to work things out. Told her i'd think about it, but I also recently found out that she's fallen in love with someone else now apparently, so this seems to be completely over. I feel like a mug for wanting to try and work things out though. The contract on our flat is up at the end of January so I think as of then, she'll be gone. As much as she's my wife and I love her dearly, because of what she's done to me I hate her just as much now. I think i'll always resent her for this so there's not much I can do now beyond ending it in my eyes. I don't think that if we stay together things will get much better between us. Letting her go is honestly going to be the hardest thing i've ever done.

I among others here have been in similar position, and wouldn't believe it or care at the time, but No matter how bad you feel now dude, it does and will get better.

All the best though, I know it sucks.

Somebody Else's Presents wrote:
Joer wrote:Told Mrs I wanted a divorce the other day. That went well. Asked me if i'd consider staying with her for 6 months to give it a try to work things out. Told her i'd think about it, but I also recently found out that she's fallen in love with someone else now apparently, so this seems to be completely over. I feel like a mug for wanting to try and work things out though. The contract on our flat is up at the end of January so I think as of then, she'll be gone. As much as she's my wife and I love her dearly, because of what she's done to me I hate her just as much now. I think i'll always resent her for this so there's not much I can do now beyond ending it in my eyes. I don't think that if we stay together things will get much better between us. Letting her go is honestly going to be the hardest thing i've ever done.

Hime?

Too soon

All the best Joer, snakes with tits etc.

Poor Joer

See Hime, this is what sticking your knob in a married woman does.

My married woman hasn't actually cheated at all for what it's worth (that I know of). From what she's told me, she's essentially met someone at work, it was love at first sight (for her) and she's been in love with him since. She immediately cut off all contact with him other than when she has no chance but to see him at work once a week or so, but that's it as far as i'm aware.

Love at first sight :dread:

Next up on clicherama, 'soul mate'

Joer wrote:My married woman hasn't actually cheated at all for what it's worth (that I know of). From what she's told me, she's essentially met someone at work, it was love at first sight (for her) and she's been in love with him since. She immediately cut off all contact with him other than when she has no chance but to see him at work once a week or so, but that's it as far as i'm aware.

That's some weird gooseberry fool , just like that. Women can be sometimes seriously retarded.

It's not exclusive to women.

Sounds like she should've grown out of puberty before getting married..

Advent7 wrote:Love at first sight

Next up on clicherama, 'soul mate'

Clicherama :lol:

Jacob Marley wrote:It's not exclusive to women.

See I disagree.

Man usually don't fall in love but instead just cheat. Woman however, if they cheat usually feelings are in there somehow.

The emotions inside of them makes them do stupid gooseberry fool like fall in love etc. Us man we just get the man juice out of us then we get back to our senses.

I'm terrified at the idea of you speaking on behalf of all men.

Dblock wrote:
Joer wrote:My married woman hasn't actually cheated at all for what it's worth (that I know of). From what she's told me, she's essentially met someone at work, it was love at first sight (for her) and she's been in love with him since. She immediately cut off all contact with him other than when she has no chance but to see him at work once a week or so, but that's it as far as i'm aware.

That's some weird gooseberry fool , just like that. Women can be sometimes seriously retarded.

It's not really weird. She told Joer she didn't love him before they got married. Now, I don't know if she's really in love with this new guy or she just wants to bone him (a nicer word would be infatuation), but that seems pretty normal to me. She's not emotionally satisfied in her marriage. It's also not a gender issue.

But yes, she was retarded for marrying Joer.*

*Not because you're a hideous monster or anything :lol:

But because it's retarded to marry someone who you don't love.

Joer, I have forgotten all the details, but did you know she was a depressive before you guys got serious?

Yup. But she was "fine" for ages. I agree she was retarded for marrying me, it's one of the reasons i've ended up hating her so much because of it. That she let me marry her, waste all this strawberry floating time for nothing.

Ugh, marriage. :dread:

The only hard thing about any of this is how much I love her. I thought i'd found the person I was going to spend the rest of my life with, and yet instead i've got a marriage that's lasted no more than a quarter of a year. So when she asks me to try for another six months to make it work, I am so tempted, but then I can't help but shake the feeling it's a waste of time, that she's using it as a back up until she can get a new job "back home" and actually find someone back home that'll put her up since her family is pretty much non-existent.

Joer wrote:Yup. But she was "fine" for ages. I agree she was retarded for marrying me, it's one of the reasons i've ended up hating her so much because of it. That she let me marry her, waste all this strawberry floating time for nothing.

Joe, this is your chance to travel the world. Go on a wild trip somewhere or whatever. Send naked pics of chicks to her with your cock in their mouths

Joer wrote:The only hard thing about any of this is how much I love her. I thought i'd found the person I was going to spend the rest of my life with, and yet instead i've got a marriage that's lasted no more than a quarter of a year. So when she asks me to try for another six months to make it work, I am so tempted, but then I can't help but shake the feeling it's a waste of time, that she's using it as a back up until she can get a new job "back home" and actually find someone back home that'll put her up since her family is pretty much non-existent.

Seriously, this period should have been your happiest moments, trust me bail out dude. This woman seems like an opportunist. I mean if she has literally nowhere to stay give her a month to sort herself out if not don't delay what's eventually going to happen. Make it happen ASAP. This week.

Yeh dude. Leave. I know there's posters on here praising you for caring about her and wanting to help her, but honestly I think the exact opposite. When you're old and dying, you're going to regret wasting a chunk of your life on someone who doesn't give a gooseberry fool about you. Yes, it's a good thing to be a good man, but only to those who deserve it. Just because she's mentally ill, doesn't mean it's your duty to help her. Plus, you can't. She has to help herself.

Staying with her and "helping her through hard times", it's not going to improve your life at all. So what if some people think "oh he's so nice..."? If the honey moon period of your marriage was gooseberry fool, how do you think it's gonna be later on?

I bet you guys haven't been having regular sex since before you got married too.

I don't think anyone said that, we all told you to leave her and that she was a bitch.

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