Dual wrote:Outrunner wrote:My manager is trying to convince me to apply for a years unpaid leave rather than hand my notice in when (if) I study abroad next academic year. I'm not sure how to feel about it. On the one hand it's nice that she values me enough that she wants me back, on the other, everything I'm doing at university is with the goal of finally quitting my job and doing something else and I've made no secret of it so it seems odd to try and convince me to stay.
Not sure what the issue is here. Great position to be in.
Not so much an issues more surprised. I failed to supply context so sorry for that. Work has made me miserable for years, the senior manager has bullied me for years, taking advantage of my mental health problems to do so. I've reduced my hours since starting university, I now only work Saturdays. I feel much better for not seeing my senior manager but ultimately still want to leave. This was all planned out when I had a mental health nurse who told me I needed to leave because work was toxic and damaging. I told my line manager when I started my degree that I would be leaving when the year abroad came around. So I'm surprised that she's trying to convince me to stay. I'm also surprised because after years of bullying from the senior manager I don't feel confident in my work (I've slowly been rebuilding my confidence now I'm at university) so it's always a bit of a shock if I get a compliment from a manager, even if that manager is someone I get on with (as is the case with my line manager)
The only real issue surrounding it is that if I were to apply I have to apply and plead my case to my senior manager (who bullied me).