Stugene wrote:Green Gecko wrote:Stugene wrote:Fade wrote:Green Gecko wrote:strawberry floating skaffies again.
Clanging and scraping the pipes by lobbing them into the truck while guffawing bollocks with the radio on full blast together with one of those boomboxes.
Enveloping sound, because sound travels and it's impossible to determine words or anything else from whatever radio 1 or dance anthem bollocks it is, all you can hear through the ground floor of the house is indistinct warbley bass noise of talk radio. Like strawberry float are they listening to it. It's transmitted through the tires. Music wouldn't be as bad, but even that is generic thumping shite.
I appreciate I am autistic but after hours this shite feels like being repeatedly stabbed in the brain.
So I confront them from my door. Please turn down the radio and/or the Makita boombox (specifically pointing to it) as its all I can hear. The bass travels and you can't hear the music anyway because it's inside the strawberry floating truck, not outside.
(the solution isn't to turn up the radio so it goes THROUGH the steel plating of the truck, its to use some strawberry floating headphones or something isn't it??)
"alright mate. we're working mate"
[unintelligible muttering]
Please can you turn the radio down.
"Were WORKING mate."
"It's metal" (as if this fixes all such grievances)
I know it's metal. I'm not talking about the scaffolding, but the radio, which is so loud, and yet you still can't make anything out.
"we're WORKING"
"working from home??" [sarcastically ie you aren't working as hard as us, typical presumptuous banana split, that is]
I'm working just as hard as you are.
I know it's metal, but that's not inseparable from doing your job, is it? Do you have to have the radio on?
"we're working".
"alright mate have a good day bye" (sarcastically)
They did piss off to be fair, they might not be able to consider the people living by their site but their employers likely would if I called them.
Thank strawberry float it's going down. I could do without the anxiety.
The scaffolding work has been up there for 3 months and I've only just thought strawberry float it. I don't want to make these guy's lives miserable. But it's not Ibeza. Shut the strawberry float up, you don't have to willingly add to the noise, do you? It's not a requirement of the job to park a truck with the radio on full blast for 3 hours continously outside several people's homes.
The insinuation I'm not working or that having the radio on that loud is the devine right of any proper tradesman and an important component of the work we do is extremely annoying.
I felt I could mention autism but they'd probably just joke about how I'm retarded or don't look disabled and should piss off.
Carrying out works within communities that people live should have their wellbeing as an important part considering the environment in which you work, and others. banana splits.
See, this is what happens when men don't have empathetic role models when they're young
they're just arseholes mate. they're mucking around and trying to get a rise out of someone for a laugh.
Tbh I don't care what their upbringing was like someone can still choose to be a dick. Leaning on this or that problem in society is an explanation but not an excuse. I'm sure plenty of men think that way. "I'm a dick because my family were a disk to me. So tough gooseberry fool that's life".
I just realised this was pointless as they couldn't even fathom what I was saying, seethed "strawberry float you" and shut the door.
Hardly got anything done however as I tend to stew about such things, as pathetic as it sounds it can make the world feel like a more inhospitable place, so that day was a write off. The headache didn't help.
Much better today thankfully.
aye - it's all too easy to say "oh it's not their fault! it was their upbringing!" when someone is launching missiles of dogshite at your window. they're just being arseholes.
Sure, but there's also a reason they lack empathy.
There's a reason none of us would do that and somebody else would.
People aren't 'just dicks' there's always a reason.
I'm not saying it's not their fault. Obviously you always have a choice, but that's a bit like saying a child has a choice not to misbehave. If you never teach that child how to behave they don't get magically fixed when they're a grown up.
So yes it they they have the choice on how to behave, but upbringing does play a massive role in someone's behaviour.
If someone has only ever been taught to resolve problems by yelling and swearing that's all they're going to be capable of.