[Rules p.1] Things that annoy you guys. 100 percent. Not gonna lie
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Corazon de Leon
Tomous wrote:People who can’t organise themselves and take no responsibility for it.
Becoming especially apparent while trying to plan a wedding. The worst has been one of my fiancé’s bridesmaids who pulled out 10 days before our wedding this weekend because “she couldn’t get the time off work”. Now, she would have been flying over from USA so I appreciate it is a lot more difficult for her but she accepted the invitation to be Bridesmaid, said she would be there and then opted not to tell us she hadn’t had leave confirmed by work because “she didn’t want to worry us and thought it would work out”
Now it hasn’t worked out, she’s taken no responsibility for it and saying it’s not her fault because work denied her request, not at all appreciating the fact that if she’d kept us in the loop we could have planned around it.
We would have been completely understanding if she’d warned us about this a few months ago, I don’t really understand why she didn’t tell us.
I understand completely - that's the work of what we affectionately call a "shitebag" in Scotland. Someone who always knew that there was a possibility of issues occurring, but couldn't work up the courage to bring you into the loop sooner and has ended up causing a larger problem by holding off and allowing the problem to snowball. I've done this myself on a much smaller scale and understand the mindset but the girl really should be taking responsibility, if not for what's gone wrong then for not giving you the opportunity to forward plan around it.
We've had similar issues in the run up to our wedding next month, but nothing even remotely on that scale. Sorry it's happened mate, and I hope everything comes off with the minimum of further setbacks. Good luck!
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Tomous
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Corazon de Leon wrote:Tomous wrote:People who can’t organise themselves and take no responsibility for it.
Becoming especially apparent while trying to plan a wedding. The worst has been one of my fiancé’s bridesmaids who pulled out 10 days before our wedding this weekend because “she couldn’t get the time off work”. Now, she would have been flying over from USA so I appreciate it is a lot more difficult for her but she accepted the invitation to be Bridesmaid, said she would be there and then opted not to tell us she hadn’t had leave confirmed by work because “she didn’t want to worry us and thought it would work out”
Now it hasn’t worked out, she’s taken no responsibility for it and saying it’s not her fault because work denied her request, not at all appreciating the fact that if she’d kept us in the loop we could have planned around it.
We would have been completely understanding if she’d warned us about this a few months ago, I don’t really understand why she didn’t tell us.
I understand completely - that's the work of what we affectionately call a "shitebag" in Scotland. Someone who always knew that there was a possibility of issues occurring, but couldn't work up the courage to bring you into the loop sooner and has ended up causing a larger problem by holding off and allowing the problem to snowball. I've done this myself on a much smaller scale and understand the mindset but the girl really should be taking responsibility, if not for what's gone wrong then for not giving you the opportunity to forward plan around it.
We've had similar issues in the run up to our wedding next month, but nothing even remotely on that scale. Sorry it's happened mate, and I hope everything comes off with the minimum of further setbacks. Good luck!
Cheers mate, it was yesterday and some how everything went to plan-we had a bloody brillint day
Good luck for yours!
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Hexx wrote:Ad7 is older and balder than I thought.
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Articles that "have" unnessary "quotation" marks in the "title" to try and "give" it more "gravitas"
Autosport.com has just turned in to this
Autosport.com has just turned in to this
Hexx wrote:Ad7 is older and balder than I thought.
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Ad7 wrote:Autosport.com has just turned in to this
Autosport.com is a site i rarely use now, mainly because it locks you out after looking at just 3 news stories each month.
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Hexx wrote:Ad7 is older and balder than I thought.
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Lagamorph's Underwater Photography Thread
Zellery wrote:Good post Lagamorph.
Turboman wrote:Lagomorph..... Is ..... Right
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A fresh YumYum is a thing of beauty though.
Greggs has always been a bit gooseberry fool, only go in there at Christmas time now for the Festive Bake.
Greggs has always been a bit gooseberry fool, only go in there at Christmas time now for the Festive Bake.
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KK wrote:Sainsbury’s has the best jam doughnuts (they’re currently 50p for 5) and Krispy Kreme for everything else (even though they’re a rip off).
Lidl's do some really nice doughnuts too, especially the blue ones.
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