I kind of get it on a purely emotional level. I don’t want to use the “parents would understand” bullshit, but as a parent (
) it is so exciting and wonderful when you find out that you are going to be a parent. We found out really early on (my wife was pissing on sticks almost every day
) both times she became pregnant and you absolutely consider it a baby from the start. When the first pregnancy turned out to be ectopic it was one of the worst days of my life and I still find myself wondering what that kid would have been like.
But having said that, I am rational enough to realise that a foetus is not a baby. I am empathetic enough to realise that just because we wanted to be parents doesn’t mean everybody does. And I am not a strawberry floating monster that thinks women should be forced to carry the child of their rapist – especially if that rapist was their own strawberry floating father or brother.
I guarantee one thing, if men could get pregnant then abortion would never have been a controversial subject and it certainly wouldn’t have ever been illegal.