The wife and I have been going to Relate for the past nine weeks, we have one session left but I don't think we have gotten anywhere close to where my wife wants us to be.
Sadly I don't see us being able to move beyond where we are
Basically we have been having troubles for the past two and a half years, we argue a lot, she's incredibly unhappy. I don't want to be the reason she's unhappy for the rest of her life.
I do worry though as last year I had to go on a DMP after the loss of income from my wife being on maternity and not being able to go back full time due to childcare costs. So my debts went into the 10's of thousands. This is another part of what is wrong with our marriage. If we were to break up, I can't even get a place to rent due to my credit score.
I want us to stay together, of course I do, but with a week to go, I am preparing for the worst.